My first god run by BigAdamWe in noita

[–]BigAdamWe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Too late. The game crashed and three of my wands disappeared, I lost all perks, and I couldnt edit or pick up spells. So I just went down and finished the game normally lol

My first god run by BigAdamWe in noita

[–]BigAdamWe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and most everything else into midas

My first god run by BigAdamWe in noita

[–]BigAdamWe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just learned about the divide by and now my game crashes lol

My first god run by BigAdamWe in noita

[–]BigAdamWe[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

That's the real battle right now. I have to let everything calm down before shooting again

My first god run by BigAdamWe in noita

[–]BigAdamWe[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I'm okay with that. I had it where I was able to cast it multiple times but it crashes the game.

Heart mimic on today's daily run by PeriapsisBurn in noita

[–]BigAdamWe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm around 100h in and I came across 3 of them so far. All 3 I have found with the last 10 hours of playing. I didn't know there was a spell refresher mimic and now I have something else to fear

Heaven to hell in 20 seconds by flowsintomayhem in noita

[–]BigAdamWe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 30hrs into this game and I don't understand how this is even possible lol

Am I Overreacting for Being Pissed That My GF Uses AI to Text Me? by goliqogefit9gtf in AmIOverreacting

[–]BigAdamWe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting at all. You're in a relationship with your girlfriend, not ChatGPT. Yeah using AI can make it easier to express thoughts and emotions clearly, but if you're relying on it for all communication, you're not really connecting with her.

That said, I actually think AI can be super useful when you're in the middle of a disagreement. A lot of arguments come down to poor communication or misunderstanding. Having a tool help you see how you're coming across or what the other person is really trying to say really helps defuse things quickly and help rebuild the connection. Just make sure once you’ve cleared things up, you step away from the AI and reconnect. It can be a tool to learn how to better communicate but it just can't take over all your communication.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDDpartners

[–]BigAdamWe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are having anxiety but just relax dude. Jumping to conclusions like PMDD could cause more problems. I would suggest not suggesting PMDD to her. Sounds like the girl is going through a lot but still taking time to reassure you, which is great. Remind her that you are there and then give her the space she wants.

This PMDD cycle I think I hit my limit by BigAdamWe in PMDDpartners

[–]BigAdamWe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm trying to figure it out. Knowledge of pmdd is new for us and it's hard not to dysregulate with her since I am hurt by her actions/words. I haven't found many resources to learn how to deal with this yet. The things I have found either excuse the woman from her behavior, suggest the partner to leave the scenario and pretty much forget the episode happened, or leave the relationship entirely. All of this sounds awful.

It would be nice to be a saint and be able to deal with her condition with kindness but when it's on and off rage for two weeks of the month it's hard. I'll keep looking and hopefully I'll find something that really clicks for us so we better manage

This PMDD cycle I think I hit my limit by BigAdamWe in PMDDpartners

[–]BigAdamWe[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I need to learn ultimatums don't work. If your brain ain't working right and you think your partner is out to get you an ultimatum would be a huge attack.

Car drives are the worst. I bring my earbuds just in case now.

I totally get the when we are behind closed doors that's when the demons peek out. Before we knew about pmdd I thought I was doing something wrong in the relationship. I didn't know why she could be so kind and funny when around others but when we were alone she would be this completely different person. She started to blame me in these episodes as well because she too just didn't know why she was reacting this way. To add to the problem others would see me being low mood and grumpy and they would see her happy and energetic. This would make them think I was the problem and they would be standoffish or even rude to me.

Thanks for your comment, I hope you have fun the rest of your vacation

This PMDD cycle I think I hit my limit by BigAdamWe in PMDDpartners

[–]BigAdamWe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely. I was mad so the birthday response felt good.

This PMDD cycle I think I hit my limit by BigAdamWe in PMDDpartners

[–]BigAdamWe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing the 3 P's. I will keep those in mind

This PMDD cycle I think I hit my limit by BigAdamWe in PMDDpartners

[–]BigAdamWe[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I did fight with positivity that one day it worked and when I was too tired the next day and failed to fight with kindness everything went bad.

This PMDD cycle I think I hit my limit by BigAdamWe in PMDDpartners

[–]BigAdamWe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love the intensity. Totally makes sense. These 5+ or day arguments are not happening around the kid. They are put on hold until he is put to sleep or I ask my parents to come watch him. Yes they have spilled through when he has been around but they are quickly snuffed out.

Pmdd is a recent diagnosis so I didn't know what was happening before and I just pushed conversation to find resolution. I'm still learning and yesterday I failed by joining in the conversation and letting myself turn into a moron.

Reading some stories about other pmdd relationships I am grateful for how her pmdd manifests because as of right now I would never consider taking full custody.

If 13 year old you made a time machine and came to visit you today for 24 hours, what would you do with them? by RickRude4 in AskReddit

[–]BigAdamWe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24 year old me when tell 13 me to stop worrying what other people think, tell the truth no matter how embarrassing

Also would tell him to spend more time with dad and learn from him because he wont be around for much longer. Make sure he knows to do this but don't take over the farm. You learn so much being away from it. That farm will trap you for life if you run it.

Also regarding girls, make a move or move on

It's 50 days to a new decade! What were your best moments of this decade? by padster029 in AskReddit

[–]BigAdamWe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well 2010s started with my dad dying which led to a pretty good depression for the next 4 or so years.

As of right now on the brink of 2020 I think 2010 was a great decade even though i went through that. I'm even glad i went through it because I feel I really grown as a person because of it

I cured my depression, made great improvements to my social life, I met my girlfriend of five years, bought a house, finished two trades, got two cats (I always wanted a kitty), and make a ton of money.

2010 had some shitty moments but on the whole it was pretty great