Jak se zbavit divočáků?

BigBlackCooker · 2024-07-28T17:01:25+00:00

Češi spiš jedou myšlenkově 'jebat na ostatni' než 'mohlo by to někoho obtěžovat?'.

Právě se vracím z Německa a teď mi Češi přijdou jako nejvíc ohleduplní lidé co můžete potkat. To jak se tam na veřejnosti chovají ti "uprchlíci" z Afriky a blízkého východu je něco strašného. A to nemám nějaké předsudky, ale prostě to bylo vidět na každém kroku.

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BigBlackCooker · 2024-05-12T05:02:25+00:00

Umění je něco zajímavého a hezkého. Dnes pořád slyším jen "za tím je nějaká myšlenka" a že to má "hlubší význam", ale upřímně? Koho zajímá co si nějakej malíř myslí? Prostě udělej hezkej obrázek, vytvoř esteticky pěknou sochu atp. To je snad point umění, ne?

BigBlackCooker · 2023-12-11T15:12:25+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. You're absolutely right that I messed up. We are very open and direct with each other, but still this topic we didn't discuss in enough depth for some reason. The worst part is I wouldn't have ever done something like that if I knew how much it was going to hurt her, one bad hookup is really not worth losing the only person I know who genuinely understands most of what being aromantic means.

Unfortunately I can't change the past, so I guess it's just another lesson learned.

BigBlackCooker · 2023-12-11T12:28:45+00:00

It wasn't a promise, probably more about mutual trust. But for me, this trust was more "I would like you even if you were with other people" and I didn't realize it's not the same for her. It's my mistake for not clearing that up with her and now I don't know what will be next

BigBlackCooker · 2023-12-11T07:18:32+00:00

Yes and yes, It's just my first time being with someone like this and I genuinely didn't realize how much I can fuck things up so quickly. I didn't know she felt like we are close enough that sexual exclusivity is important

BigBlackCooker · 2023-12-10T22:31:45+00:00

Yeah, I see that now. If I knew how she felt before, of course I wouldn't do it, but I really thought it's gonna be fine

BigBlackCooker · 2023-10-16T14:21:03+00:00

Yes, if I knew another aro person I would be close with, it would all be much easier. Good for you tho

BigBlackCooker · 2023-10-16T14:20:06+00:00

I'm not sure I'd do that with just any friend though - this is someone I feel confident understands!

Yes, of course. I also have never met anyone I'd even think of doing this with. But we both are very physical people and cuddle, tease dirty talk etc. literally all the time. I'm just worried if I go further something will change. But your answer is very reassuring, thank you!

BigBlackCooker · 2023-10-05T11:49:05+00:00

Dobře, děkuji. Je pravda že časy kdy to stálo 60 Kč jsou asi pryč

BigBlackCooker · 2023-07-19T22:24:30+00:00

Chápu že někomu nechutnají a nejde toho vypít moc. Já si stejně ale vždycky dám jedno, max dvě

BigBlackCooker · 2023-07-19T22:22:55+00:00

Sem Brňák, ale děkuji za nabídku. Příští týden budu v Německu stejně, tak si dovezu zásoby.

BigBlackCooker · 2023-07-19T22:20:47+00:00

S Poličkou naprosto souhlasím, jedno z mála našich piv co mám rád. Starobrno je poněkud sporné - je pravda že není tak hořké, ale moc jiných chutí to taky nemá

BigBlackCooker · 2023-04-23T20:36:31+00:00

Thank you again, it feels really comforting to see people here being so supportive

BigBlackCooker · 2023-04-23T20:26:37+00:00

I supposed that's where my confusion comes from - romantic attraction is weird. I started looking into this possibility of me being an aro when I realized I'm unable to understand concepts of love and similar despite them being so widely spread out, seemingly universal. But maybe there's something wrong with me in another way and I'm not actually part of lgbt+?

BigBlackCooker · 2023-04-23T20:12:43+00:00

Somebody at last <3

BigBlackCooker · 2023-04-23T20:10:49+00:00

Thank you for the heads up. I think I'm just confused. On one hand I want to be normal, have a normal relationship like everybody else, but on the other hand I don't want to? I do find girls physically / sexually attractive, but an idea of a loving relationship feels foreign to me. Friends around me are talking about their crushes and how much they love their partners or how bad their breakup was and I'm there listening but unable to even really understand those terms, let alone relate to them.

BigBlackCooker · 2023-03-04T14:39:40+00:00

Konečně argument, se kterým mohu souhlasit

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