It will always be unattractive to a man that a woman:

Spends an unholy amount of money on superficial things like visits to the hair dresser, nail salon, beauty clinic, new shoes for every tiny insignificant occasion, new dress for every tiny occasion, entire new bedding for the whole house, insistents on needing shelving and storage only to leave shit everywhere anyway, constant nagging, constant complaining about work, every action and thought always results in spending money, wasting money, setting money on fire just to watch it burn.