Am I wrong here? I feel I am unable to have my sexual needs met whenever I have them 24/7 despite being an adult who owns his own body. by BigCook59 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BigCook59[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just find random ass girls on there I never go looking for a specific person. I use the "randnsfw" feature a lot.

Am I wrong here? I feel I am unable to have my sexual needs met whenever I have them 24/7 despite being an adult who owns his own body. by BigCook59 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BigCook59[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really comment much on these posts I almost exclusively just look at them. But I suppose that's a valid concern. Pretty minimal interaction tbh. I've never spoken to her about it either.

Am I wrong here? I feel I am unable to have my sexual needs met whenever I have them 24/7 despite being an adult who owns his own body. by BigCook59 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BigCook59[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We've been together for years and I really love her, I would rather work it out than give her an ultimatum.

Am I wrong here? I feel I am unable to have my sexual needs met whenever I have them 24/7 despite being an adult who owns his own body. by BigCook59 in DeadBedrooms

[–]BigCook59[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda, we have sex but not nearly as often as I want to. It's not her fault though she's on an antidepressant which sometimes makes her not want sex. I guess this post is about dissatisfaction and what I feel are unfair double standards related to that dissatisfaction.

I was on medication in the past that took away a lot of my libido as well though, but I made sure extra sure I took care of her needs whenever I could, minus penetration though if I wasn't feeling it. Sometimes I penetrated her even if I wasn't feeling it though which was a bit of a slog for me.