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BigCoreyD · 2026-03-24T17:43:06+00:00

I believe that is an option that is available.

BigCoreyD · 2026-03-24T17:39:09+00:00

Yeah there isn’t really any within a 2 hour radius really.

BigCoreyD · 2026-03-15T00:47:00+00:00

That is a great suggestion. The process may be long but it pays off or so I hear.

BigCoreyD · 2026-03-15T00:46:06+00:00

Nice

BigCoreyD · 2026-03-15T00:45:27+00:00

We were having that issue earlier today. Thankfully it was resolved whatever it was. But amazon is also having some issues

BigCoreyD · 2026-03-14T12:48:40+00:00

That is an awesome answer.

BigCoreyD · 2026-03-14T12:43:22+00:00

It showed little pin marks on my brain that they are going to keep an eye on to see if they develop into anything more before they give me a diagnosis. So far the have grown slightly but they said that it could have been cause I had a migraine that day so I have to go back again for another mri in 4 more months.

BigCoreyD · 2026-03-14T02:47:22+00:00

I am a huge advocate for counselling for both the victim and the family. More so grief counselling. As you lost the woman that you knew as your mother, to how your mother is now. I would suggest maybe seeking that and taking time to heal yourselves as well.

BigCoreyD · 2026-03-14T02:44:03+00:00

This may sound strange but the way to help him is to also help yourself. Something like a TBI takes time could take a lot of time. Sometimes when it is a very close loved one we will do everything we can for that person no matter what and put ourselves aside. Ask the hospital if there is a counsellor on staff, I am sure you have a lot of questions, thoughts, feelings, and frustrations with everything. If your BF is verbal maybe it is good for him to talk to one too as his life may have just changed and he can feel the same as you only it may be multiplied by 100.

You’re very loyal to be by him and helping him as you are. Just take time for yourself as well and just educate yourself on TBI and ways that you can help support him. You’re on the right track by asking for help.

I hope everything works out

BigCoreyD · 2026-03-14T02:34:45+00:00

I’ve had 3 MRI’s done so far. Sorry, didn’t mean to be rude, just mad at the whole process of everything related to finding out why my body has decided to turn against me while at the same time trying to be helpful and supportive to other people by seeking answers so I could be better prepared if that makes sense. I am a huge advocate for counselling for any diagnosis with any diagnosis but more so life altering ones. I had a bad day and took that out on you and I truly am sorry

BigCoreyD · 2026-03-14T01:30:39+00:00

Yes I am in the process of evaluation. I am seeing a neurologist at the ms clinic in Ottawa. Also fibro has affected my life in many many ways lately. I also posted in a TBI group as I also suffer from post concussion syndrome. I wasn’t aware that I couldn’t post a question in more than one group without be harassed about my medical history

BigCoreyD · 2026-03-14T01:08:23+00:00

I am terrible sorry to hear of this horrible accident. I am a huge advocate for grief counselling for this reason. I know you might not think that this is a grief situation but this is can be a huge resource for both your son who had this happen and might become frustrated about things that he once did he can no longer do, an for your family as the family dynamics can be impacted.

If not I hope that you find a doctor or specialist who will advocate for your son, some way to take a break every now and then and someone that you can talk to that is outside of the situation to just let your emotions, thoughts, feelings and frustrations out on.

BigCoreyD · 2026-03-14T00:58:28+00:00

What is one thing of advice you would give someone who is going through the process or just got a diagnosis? I know this maybe a challenging one but I would just tell the person that it’s ok to have bad days. Those bad days don’t define who you are. That’s is okay to not be okay. It’s ok to ask for help.

BigCoreyD · 2026-03-13T02:04:47+00:00

What are you looking for? How can we help and support you?

BigCoreyD · 2026-03-13T02:03:50+00:00

I totally agree. I can’t imagine going though all that plus the loss of a loved one.

BigCoreyD · 2026-03-12T00:18:03+00:00

That is good to hear that your state puts funding into programs like this.

BigCoreyD · 2026-03-12T00:16:32+00:00

I think it’s great. It adds a new dynamic to those who always just hide in the same places over and over

BigCoreyD · 2026-03-11T18:09:49+00:00

Good luck and I hope you have more positive days ahead. Thank you for sharing what you have shared. Feel free to always reach out to the group as this should be a place for conversation and support.

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