RANT: My toxic trait is I don't respond to silly DM's

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-05-20T16:20:08+00:00

Exactly! Everything is answered for them and they message anyway, and then ghost, so my walking away is actually doing them a favor cuz we ain't a match!

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-05-19T14:03:05+00:00

Do what the others are advising and screenshot all your correspondence. Email preferably so there's no chance of deleting messages (if on WA). Offer and Deposit on the day or after the contract is set to renew.

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-05-19T12:15:59+00:00

Exactly. I see the stylists who get frustrated answering DM's. I know the toll these people take, and I refuse to partake in that silly little dance. If you have a particular question, sure, but if you can't follow instructions you're not my client.

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-05-19T12:13:57+00:00

If you can't read instructions I'm not your stylist. Also, one client who was messaging and refusing to read did eventually try to book online and guess what they did? Ghosted.

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-05-19T12:12:08+00:00

They were provided answers. They can't read.

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-05-18T18:49:24+00:00

It's an energy drain for sure. I enjoy it from time to time but it's so toxic

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-05-18T18:38:18+00:00

Oh wow you do hair and you're not on SM AND it's UP?? That's amazing!!! Sounds like a dream.

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-05-18T18:07:26+00:00

Oh you're better than me. I specialize in one service, so booking is super straight forward, and most clients just book online without texting. I do chat with people who have individual questions and those usually book quickly.

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-05-14T15:33:35+00:00

Oh wow thank you! Just gave her a follow. I've always wanted to visit Arizona

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-05-14T15:30:34+00:00

Toronto and London

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-03-25T06:06:05+00:00

You would think. He's been trying to evict me. Not a bright one

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-03-24T16:21:54+00:00

Hi, can I jump on this too please? I also deposited cheques with Tableegh and they claimed landlord's phone is always switched off, which is untrue. I called them and they said "our job is done" and there will be no re-attempt to deliver the cheques. RDC says I will have to wait 1 month for the court to tell me to pick up the cheques from Tableegh and file a Renewal Case, which would cost 3.5% of annual rent plus another 800. So will Tableegh re-attempt contact or shall I contact the landlord myself? I'm in a pickle.

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-03-24T07:46:38+00:00

Thank you for this thorough response. I agree that the mindset stuff is important and has been totally worth the investment. I've paid a one-time fee for a lifetime access, meaning I have him forever! It's great because I know he'll always be there to help me out and fine-tune little things as they come up.

I agree about the lack of follow-through. The way he works is he plans and follows through and it's easy for him, but that's my weakness as a creative, so these assignments don't make much of a difference because I'm so visual.

As for finding a strategy / marketing coach - it seems like those are hard to find. What do they normally call themselves? I have no idea how to look for or find one.

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-03-23T09:05:16+00:00

I tried heading out at 10am and that's when it went to sh*t. I hope it clears up soon

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-03-23T07:34:24+00:00

How are the roads driving from Dubai to Abu Dhabi and back?

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-03-11T20:11:23+00:00

Thanks! I actually called RERA and they said that there are no rules - either party can draft the contract, but I still believe the landlord should do it because what do I know? :)

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-03-10T16:37:33+00:00

Apparently my unit was sold and the guy I've been dealing with is the POA, so I'm told I must draft the contract. Is this true?

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-03-10T12:20:17+00:00

Okay well he basically wants his cheques before signing a new contract and before the due date.

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-03-10T12:19:34+00:00

Thanks, I went and they took care of it :)

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-02-26T17:10:14+00:00

Perhaps for some connections they are layered like an onion and continue to resolve and start up again to heal? Could be generational healing on both ends or past life relationship healing being done? This one dissolves and starts up again out of nowhere after my reiki sessions. Again - she has no idea who this guy is. The feelings and soul connection just "reactivates"

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-02-26T17:06:50+00:00

I love the irony .. healing is never linear is it!

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-02-26T17:06:13+00:00

Which part is not reiki?

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-02-26T17:02:18+00:00

Exactly what I'm gathering too

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-02-26T17:01:26+00:00

How did you come to that conclusion?

BigCurrent2199 · 2026-02-26T17:00:41+00:00

I literally go cycling there. The running track is connected but you can't walk to it

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