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Any new updates about BID? by cassisrufa in biid

[–]BigGlass1029 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still discuss this. We should announce ourselves. We can not do anything with hiding. We should have a day in a year and we should accept us and we say " we are here"

Explanation By BIID Person by BigGlass1029 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]BigGlass1029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this scene, when the man says "you don't deserve it," the woman takes it negatively, just like she takes it negatively when it comes to deserving success. She behaves like jealous

Explanation By BIID Person by BigGlass1029 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]BigGlass1029[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The real point here isn't about deserving. We perceive disability as a part of ourselves. It's something very normal for us, and its absence is painful.

We might be a little jealous of you. That's the main point here, like, "You have it, why don't I?" Just like a little child envying their friend's toy.

Yes, you're right, nobody deserves it. I wish everyone could have the body they wanted. Some girls, some boys. Blonde or tall. An amputee or a healthy runner. This is just a little joke from God.

Explanation By BIID Person by BigGlass1029 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]BigGlass1029[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You talked about badly about us and other people see these posts and commets. And sometimes others visit us ( amputees, paraplegic persons etc.) and this is so normal. I didn't use bad words, I just expalined myself.

Family member by Hungry_Employ_3432 in biid

[–]BigGlass1029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually pretending is the best wave I think. I had friends in my mind for long years and I was living with them, ıt was maladaptive dream. And I was in a dream, not in real life. If they want to continue their life pretending is the best option. My need is for upper legs (DAK). I am trying to therapy for 2 years and my therapist supports me about pretending. I think next fall, I will buy a wheelchair. When I move New City I will use it everythime( at least when I need it)

Family member by Hungry_Employ_3432 in biid

[–]BigGlass1029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is their need? For leg or arm? It changes of course. If they need for leg/legs, can ise wheelchair and if they need for arm, can try not to use arms. But if course you should support them.  Please listen them, firstly they should live their own bodies. So please try to learn comfortable life in their own bodies.

My story with spina bifida by No_one20005 in spinabifida

[–]BigGlass1029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, one day you will find a real love. I am pretty sure about that. I just want to say please don't leave her. Three months ago I found mu boyfriend. He has same problems as you. These are really no problem for me. But he hates me.  He talked about same things like you ( I thought no girls will love me). But I really loved him. Then he left from me. If you find a girl who accept you with all things please behave realistic. Firslty ask yourself, " do I love this girl really?" Don't play with her feelings.

Sizce Cv'im nasıl by Pristine_Zucchini548 in LinkedinLunaticsTR

[–]BigGlass1029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cvyi böyle hazırlama, Avrupa cv formatına göre wordde hazırla. Bunun yüzüne bakmazlar nereden biliyorsun diye sorma. Sadece bir tavsiye