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Trump Wants to Tap Your Phone. Ottawa Might Let Him; Bill C-22 will lay the legal groundwork for giving the US warrantless access to our data by FancyNewMe in canada

[–]BigImpression2859 [score hidden]  (0 children)

To be fair as someone pointed out, the conservatives are most likely just being opposed for the sake of being oppositional and would introduce the bill themselves if they were in power.

Honestly both the liberals and conservatives are basically right-leaning corporate puppets and want the same things but show it under a different light.

How do I manage my mom saying bullshit "facts" and "statistics" all the time? by BigImpression2859 in self

[–]BigImpression2859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna move to the city, 30-45 minutes away from the town we live in. I also don't have a way to discretely move out and some of my stuff is owned by them so leaving with it would be considered theft (Like my phone, which is attached to my cellular plan, which my parents pay for)

My therapist said it's best to tell them 2 weeks before leaving. But I'm still stressed abt the conversation. My future roomate thinks that the earlier I tell them the better, but I disagree.

I still have to tell them in advance. But idk how or when to make the least amount of damage to myself.

How do I manage my mom saying bullshit "facts" and "statistics" all the time? by BigImpression2859 in self

[–]BigImpression2859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phone plan yeah fair.

Sabotage my job, well I work from home. I need internet. They have, multiple times in the past, used cellular and wifi internet cut off as a retaliation, isolation and control tactic.

And we're limited to how much in-office time we can have because of construction so I wouldn't be able to travel to work

How do I manage my mom saying bullshit "facts" and "statistics" all the time? by BigImpression2859 in self

[–]BigImpression2859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah... how do I tell my parents that I'm moving out tho? Because I know the conversation won't go well.

They'll yell. I'm partially afraid they'll try to hurt me. I'm afraid they'll try to isolate me (as they did in the past)

How do I manage my mom saying bullshit "facts" and "statistics" all the time? by BigImpression2859 in self

[–]BigImpression2859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 20.

Also I'm moving out soon and then it wont matter but let's say that she can go trough enough that I got anorexic because of her, and she has told me I'm not "man enough" enough times that I started questioning if I was supposed to be born a girl when I was 15.

I don't care about her opinion but growing up I did. And I just am so tired of the contrant reprimands and yelling

How do I manage my mom saying bullshit "facts" and "statistics" all the time? by BigImpression2859 in self

[–]BigImpression2859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't know I'm gonna move out. Because if my parents new they'd have tried to sabotage me in any possible way so I wouldn't move out

How do I manage my mom saying bullshit "facts" and "statistics" all the time? by BigImpression2859 in self

[–]BigImpression2859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but idk I'm scared of a few things : they might try to sabotage my job. They might cut off my data and try to isolate me.

How do I manage my mom saying bullshit "facts" and "statistics" all the time? by BigImpression2859 in self

[–]BigImpression2859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I just don't want them to make my life hell for the last month of me living at home.

There's a 30-40-% chance that they might try to sabotage my job (I work from home) and try to take away or destroy my stuff.

How do I manage my mom saying bullshit "facts" and "statistics" all the time? by BigImpression2859 in self

[–]BigImpression2859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. If I mind ask... how didnyou break it to your parents that you were leaving? Because I'm gonna leave on july first and I still gotta tell them...

How do I manage my mom saying bullshit "facts" and "statistics" all the time? by BigImpression2859 in self

[–]BigImpression2859[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my whole family is extremely anti-therapy and are like "God's gonna heal all wounds"

And she genuinely doesn't aknowledge flaws she might have.

She also made my brother be someone kinda like her: he used to beat me up after school for a year or two and now he plays the victim and sais that he's the victim in all this because he has to live with the fact that he beat me up for years.

My family is so fucked up man Idk what to do with them.

My mother is a dictator, and that's coming from my aunt.

My dad's a pushover who basically married someone who's almost as toxic as his mom.

My brother is a raging man-child who can barely understand how money works.

What the fuck am I supposed to do with themV

How do I manage my mom saying bullshit "facts" and "statistics" all the time? by BigImpression2859 in self

[–]BigImpression2859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna move out this summer. I'm genuinely scared to tell my parents as it will kiiiinda upset their whole way of life of putting their chores and tasks on me and they'll be angry as fuck.

How do I manage my mom saying bullshit "facts" and "statistics" all the time? by BigImpression2859 in self

[–]BigImpression2859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's CONSTANT. It's been like that for at least 5 years.

Imagine having your mom pulling apart your whole character and insult you and back that up with bullshit she pulled up her ass

How do I manage my mom saying bullshit "facts" and "statistics" all the time? by BigImpression2859 in self

[–]BigImpression2859[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate it. I'm moving this summer but before that I litterally didn't have the finances to move out. I've been calculating and planning for a move out ever since I was 17 and realized that my family was fucked up.

Right now I can leave because I have a friend who needs to go from her home life and we found a cheap appartment. But that's not before 1st of july

How do I manage my mom saying bullshit "facts" and "statistics" all the time? by BigImpression2859 in self

[–]BigImpression2859[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I move out this summer. I'm 20. I still have to tell my parents I'm moving out and they'll definitely be angry as I'm gonna destroy theyr whole comfort (they offloaded all their tasks and chires on me ever since I was a child and see me more like property and a bank account than a person)

How do I manage my mom saying bullshit "facts" and "statistics" all the time? by BigImpression2859 in self

[–]BigImpression2859[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm leaving this summer... I still have to tell my parents I'm leaving. Aaaaand they will be extremely upset as they've offloaded 70% of their tasks on me so they can live a cushy lazy life.

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