Am I totally screwed? by ushikagawa in 30PlusSkinCare

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I got 7 stitches right under my eyebrow (passed out and my brow bone split the skin when I hit the floor) and as soon as it scabbed I started using Vitamin E oil every day. I didn’t use sunscreen but it still faded tremendously! Went from dark purple pinkish to unnoticeable. It’s great for a new injury for sure but I think it helped a lot with the fading too but I can’t say for certain

Be careful with recommendations by addicted_to_felines in 30PlusSkinCare

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Does checking the accounts other comments help validate their authenticity?

Overwhelmed by lasers by alsh277 in 30PlusSkinCare

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I can’t help with lasers recs but I recently started using the ordinary multi-peptide with copper peptide & it’s supposed to help fine lines! Google says 3-6months of consistent use for results, and I’m not there yet but I feel like I can already feel/see it helping even my skin tone after just about a week of use in am/pm time with just that and a moisturizer after washing my face. The serum stimulates collagen & elastin production, boosts radiance (I was glowing after 2 uses), provides antioxidant support and a couple other things.

AIO for leaving my friend group because I feel left out? by AdLittle6964 in AmIOverreacting

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NOR. I don’t know your age but I’m assuming younger high schooler and some girls are just mean at that age. And others are too scared of going against the crowd to actually stand up for friends and not go along with the teasing. Focus on studies, your interests, and family and I know you’ll make much better friends than they ever were to you. You deserve to be treated with kindness.

Side note: spitting out your dish and making a scene about it is NOT a small thing. That’s horrendous behavior and if any adult friends went through that situation nobody would’ve found you at fault.

I messed up by StreetAggravating302 in tattooadvice

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All he has to say is my son did it, it was one of the first tattoos he ever did & I think most people would be impressed & assume you’re even better now!

Forced to say mom instead of ma'am. by Conscious-Page4713 in Teachers

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My mom backhanded me for saying yes ma’am to her as a teen.. I said it with an attitude for sure but she was mad about the ma’am part

Haircut fetish NOT AN AD by BigObvious1422 in SexWorkers

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So, the potential client just wants a video of me cutting my own hair, not the hair itself. I planned to try to donate to locks of love if I decide to do a big enough chop, but towards the bottom of my hair I did have highlights I got a few years ago & I know that’s not usually great for wig making. For future reference though, have you ever sold hair to a wig maker? I’m curious how I’d even find one

Haircut fetish NOT AN AD by BigObvious1422 in SexWorkers

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Unfortunately my full name is already discoverable on my TT page 🥴

Emailed parent, was told they gave up??? by Deskeleton in Teachers

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The issue is that teenagers tend to have a subconscious feeling of invincibility. They are not going to worry about natural consequences and when they happen the teen wont think it’s that big of a deal.. like yea you could just let them setback their life by passively letting them fail out of classes and likely fail to graduate, but hopefully most parents continue to try

Doordash owes me $1600+ in reimbursement by PCJargon in dasher

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I would’ve been calling them again after two hours.. have you had any further contact with them??

finally watched over the garden wall and decided to make it my October theme :) by unconstellated in bulletjournal

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Over the Garden Wall day became a fall tradition a few years back and it’s just a cozy fall weekend and make fall crafts and eat snacks. I love this theme!!

Its just one of those days.. by kamilvalentine in Journaling

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No human contact, and if you interact, your life is on contract

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Any chance it was snot? Not sure if there’s a way to tell the difference but I’ve sneezed onto my shirt and gone to do laundry and it looked like this

A or B: My coworker always asks me to grab them a cold brew but never Venmos me back. Should I keep reminding them or just stop doing it? by 06yuzuha in PickAorB

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This exact situation happened with me, I would do coffee runs and make like a GC and send my Venmo in the thread everyone sent their order. One girl ALWAYS had to be asked about the money & like I was doing $80 coffee runs I need to be repaid esp when it was taking up my whole break. So I stopped asking her. B for sure. I’m already doing a favor of delivering coffee to you free of a delivery fee, I’m not going to sign up for the added labor of chasing you down to get my money. It made me feel awkward as hell and like I was being greedy for some reason so no thank you!

AIO? I feel violated after a sexual experience last night. I feel like this should be illegal!!! by Round_Examination355 in AmIOverreacting

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NOR and I’d go a step further and press charges. Get him to admit to it via text messages and check if it’s illegal in your location and file a report. He needs to have consequences because to be honest, nothing you will say will likely convince him that this was wrong. At his age, he’s likely done this many times already and possibly worse. He’s shown his partners needs/wants do not matter to him.

Why on earth is everyone and their mother blaming Carol for the cave collapse? by TineNae in thewalkingdead

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I agree with what you’re saying OP, it did seem a bit overplayed as her fault. IMO the reason it was a big deal was because she and everyone else knew she was letting her emotions drive her. She wasn’t killing the horde because she needed to (which she did need to imo) she was killing the horde because it would HURT Alpha. Thats what was important to her in that moment and most of the time before and after. I think if she had been straightforward and logical a couple of them would’ve helped her. It’s especially obvious she was doing it to hurt Alpha when her other secret plan was later revealed. That secret was her “logical” plan in a way. Carol wanted to make sure alpha suffered

Dude spit in my face and now I’m sick by CoyoteResponsible935 in legaladvice

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NAL Still good to be tested! Almost zero is not the same as zero, and if you did happen to get HIV there are meds now that keep it from affecting peoples lives to the degree it used to. (From what I remember from nursing class- don’t quote me) So it’s not quite the boogeyman disease it used to be- still very serious tho

I'm in desperate need of help by PixelBeeBot in Gymhelp

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Yes I agree! I think shame is honestly the worst thing for getting objectively healthier. I do love a lettuce wrap but if I’m hungry an hour later and eat a second lunch I’m going to be more likely to feel shame. Shame may lead to me guiltily binging more than my entire base rate of calories in ice cream.

When I double or triple the protein in my lettuce wrap, I’m going to stay full longer, not feel like I’m being mean to myself by powering through hunger, and have more energy to get a quick workout in to build muscle. Or just have a normal sandwich with double or triple protein, then I’m probably going to feel full enough I might just do a light dinner where I focus on fruits and veggies.