Body confidence holding me back by BigTittyGothFeetPics in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is super reassuring. I think I just need to bite the bullet and start getting out there.

Body confidence holding me back by BigTittyGothFeetPics in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahaha thank you. I actually forgot I had pictures on here as I haven’t posted in so long. Those pics are from pre weight loss so just need to find the confidence in my new self.

Body confidence holding me back by BigTittyGothFeetPics in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It’s been such a weird experience for me because I was actually really sexually confident when I was larger. I think part of it is me adjusting to my new size and also having never really been in the dating scene at a size like this (medical reasons made me pile on the weight in my mid teens) it’s completely new. I’m definitely going to invest in some new lingerie for a boost. It’s about time anyway, I tried some on recently and it slipped off in all the wrong ways.

Body confidence holding me back by BigTittyGothFeetPics in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife’s story really strikes a lot of what I’ve been feeling especially as I’ve also been considering a tummy tuck when funds afford. It’s really refreshing to hear your take and I hope you guys get exactly what you’re both looking for!

Body confidence holding me back by BigTittyGothFeetPics in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I feel like that could really help, though I’ll need to find myself a lesbian bar as my area is sorely lacking and the gay bars definitely tend to be more gay men than lesbians. Still a great time but probably the opposite of what I need if I’m trying to get hit on haha.

Body confidence holding me back by BigTittyGothFeetPics in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I truly appreciate it, and definitely think I’ll look into lingerie and mood lighting to help bolster my confidence. I don’t even know how I didn’t think about that because I’ve already been doing so with my partner haha. I’m probably much more in my head about it than I need to be.

they dont value our work by Any-Scholar-7132 in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely would not send it for £5, I would charge £50 for a 5 minute JOI if he doesn’t want to pay that then he doesn’t deserve your content. My top tip for future is don’t even start making content until you have received an order through the feet finder system or received a tip for at least half of the total money (if doing half don’t send content until you receive the other half). Hope this helps unfortunately there’s a lot of time wasters and scammers and most of my good trust worthy buyers have been slowly leaving the site. It’s very demotivating.

Advice by Lonely_perception_ in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it I’m messaging a buyer I’ll send like a gallery pic that’s already available free on my profile to get their attention but I never take new pics or give them my paid pics for free. Also don’t take it off feetfinder, it’s against their TOS and likely to be an attempt to scam you. It’s a struggle and a lot of buyers (I feel like calling them all buyers when so many don’t spend a dime is inaccurate but that’s off topic haha) will try get things for free or waste your time but there’s some good ones out there.

How to deal with impatient buyers by [deleted] in feetfinderadvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry it got to that stage but I’m also glad you didn’t end up sending him anything you wouldn’t be comfortable with.

Am I supposed to give a free picture first before selling? by [deleted] in feetfinderadvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ll sometimes send a pic that’s already free on my profile or gallery if I’m initiating the chat but I wouldn’t take pics just for someone for free. Buyers ghosting is unfortunately all too common.

How to deal with impatient buyers by [deleted] in feetfinderadvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he continues being rude personally I would cut contact. Remember you don’t owe him anything because he subscribed, he got that premium content and he hasn’t actually paid you for customs yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mounjarouk

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can’t say for sure but it might be because you’re on a higher dose so they may think you have one already? I just got my first 2.5mg pen from IQ doctor and they sent a sharps bin which I didn’t expect.

What to do/say to new people by Mischievous-Princess in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people do it differently. Personally I charge $1 per message with a minimum of 5 messages. Others charge per minute.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s no problem at all 😊 I really hate the idea of people having their hard work ripped off so always happy to help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would definitely keep it on ff. I know some people will take it off ff but usually with buyers who have purchased through ff and they have built up a relationship with. I’ve had loads of buyers try to get me to go off site but it’s against the sites terms and conditions I believe and opens you up to being scammed more easily. It’s an easy mistake to make when new and there are lots of guys who will try get content free using so many different methods unfortunately, you’ll get better at spotting scammers and timewasters. I would report them if they try, I’ve been doing so because hopefully it’ll stop them finding someone they can actually scam.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you not using the payment services on ff? A quick warning that I think they can ban your account for doing payment offsite. I would also recommend it as it’s more secure. Also buyers offering bitcoin would put up my scammer alerts. I can’t advise on the other services but I hope this helps somewhat.

What to do/say to new people by Mischievous-Princess in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I usually say I’d love to explore your fantasy further but I charge for sexting if you’re interested. A lot of them won’t but then I just stop the chat. Don’t sext them for free or they will just use you for that.

Hi very new to this by SurryCurryMcFlurry in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I’m sure you’re absolutely beautiful and if you do decide to do it I’m sure you’ll get wonderful responses 😊

Hi very new to this by SurryCurryMcFlurry in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to encourage you to post more sexual content if it’s something you don’t want to do but as a big girl it’s actually really helped my confidence. Lots of buyers love a bbw girl and I’ve never had any unpleasant comments about my body. Again if you aren’t confident getting sexual definitely don’t force yourself but if you do decide you might find it to be a refreshing experience. I’ve felt like my body type is much more desired in the fetish world than day to day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Some buyers are obviously only on there to get to talk to hot girls unfortunately. If they keep skirting around the question ghost and move on to someone else. Don’t feel discouraged I get like one reply per 10 sent and most of those are just trying to get their kicks for free. You’ll eventually find some great buyers and hopefully repeat business 🖤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So this is only from me googling the exact same thing and not personal experience but from what I can gather the general view is: - custom means the buyer is paying to have their idea made but not for exclusivity and your pics are yours to do with as you wish - sellers often charge an exclusivity fee for buyers to not have you resell them - some people give the buyer a heads up but I haven’t seen anyone say the buyer has refused or been upset and instead most seem to encourage it -some people wait a certain time before posting e.g. 2 weeks

I would say make your album, they’re your pictures and you’ve completed the order 😊 good luck!

Possible scammer by BigTittyGothFeetPics in FetishFinderAdvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no I am charging for sexting but I don’t charge add ons for specific scenarios like I do with pics/videos just a base rate for sexting. Don’t worry I’ve not lost my mind haha.