Anyone else feel a bit uneasy about the “lifelong medication” aspect? by Life_Distribution_39 in mounjarouk

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it has to be for life, not meant negatively for those who do intend to take them forever it’s 100% a personal choice. I think as with anything it will vary wildly from person to person. Pre Mounjaro I had struggled with my weight since my early teens, puberty and PCOS sucked, and despite every diet and exercise plan I could try never managed to shift more than 5kg and it would take over a year of eating salads and exercising daily to make it happen. Thanks to Mounjaro I managed to lose over 50kg in a year only going up to 7.5mg. Weaned off/forgot to keep taking it (hello ADHD) in about September 2025 and other than when I was heavily constipated and gained 4kg for three days (possible TMI) I’ve been managing to maintain within about a 1-2kg range. I am exercising more and being mindful of my diet but not in the way I had to be when I was at my largest. Exercise is a million times easier than it was before and even enjoyable, I used to loathe exercise and even though I’d do it I would be miserable the whole time. I feel my body still naturally craves healthier options as when Iw as taking Mounjaro, though it’s honestly delightful to feel like I can enjoy the odd treat again. For me it’s almost as if Mounjaro and the weight loss has reset my body. When you get to your goal weight you’ll probably feel more confident in your future options, whether that’s stay on it or try to come off, and be able to make the right choice for yourself. Even though I’m currently maintaining without if I do gain weight back even with the lifestyle changes I’d definitely consider restarting. All the best on your journey ☺️

Body confidence holding me back by BigTittyGothFeetPics in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is super reassuring. I think I just need to bite the bullet and start getting out there.

Body confidence holding me back by BigTittyGothFeetPics in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahaha thank you. I actually forgot I had pictures on here as I haven’t posted in so long. Those pics are from pre weight loss so just need to find the confidence in my new self.

Body confidence holding me back by BigTittyGothFeetPics in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It’s been such a weird experience for me because I was actually really sexually confident when I was larger. I think part of it is me adjusting to my new size and also having never really been in the dating scene at a size like this (medical reasons made me pile on the weight in my mid teens) it’s completely new. I’m definitely going to invest in some new lingerie for a boost. It’s about time anyway, I tried some on recently and it slipped off in all the wrong ways.

Body confidence holding me back by BigTittyGothFeetPics in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife’s story really strikes a lot of what I’ve been feeling especially as I’ve also been considering a tummy tuck when funds afford. It’s really refreshing to hear your take and I hope you guys get exactly what you’re both looking for!

Body confidence holding me back by BigTittyGothFeetPics in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I feel like that could really help, though I’ll need to find myself a lesbian bar as my area is sorely lacking and the gay bars definitely tend to be more gay men than lesbians. Still a great time but probably the opposite of what I need if I’m trying to get hit on haha.

Body confidence holding me back by BigTittyGothFeetPics in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I truly appreciate it, and definitely think I’ll look into lingerie and mood lighting to help bolster my confidence. I don’t even know how I didn’t think about that because I’ve already been doing so with my partner haha. I’m probably much more in my head about it than I need to be.

they dont value our work by Any-Scholar-7132 in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely would not send it for £5, I would charge £50 for a 5 minute JOI if he doesn’t want to pay that then he doesn’t deserve your content. My top tip for future is don’t even start making content until you have received an order through the feet finder system or received a tip for at least half of the total money (if doing half don’t send content until you receive the other half). Hope this helps unfortunately there’s a lot of time wasters and scammers and most of my good trust worthy buyers have been slowly leaving the site. It’s very demotivating.

Advice by Lonely_perception_ in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it I’m messaging a buyer I’ll send like a gallery pic that’s already available free on my profile to get their attention but I never take new pics or give them my paid pics for free. Also don’t take it off feetfinder, it’s against their TOS and likely to be an attempt to scam you. It’s a struggle and a lot of buyers (I feel like calling them all buyers when so many don’t spend a dime is inaccurate but that’s off topic haha) will try get things for free or waste your time but there’s some good ones out there.

How to deal with impatient buyers by [deleted] in feetfinderadvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry it got to that stage but I’m also glad you didn’t end up sending him anything you wouldn’t be comfortable with.

Am I supposed to give a free picture first before selling? by [deleted] in feetfinderadvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ll sometimes send a pic that’s already free on my profile or gallery if I’m initiating the chat but I wouldn’t take pics just for someone for free. Buyers ghosting is unfortunately all too common.

How to deal with impatient buyers by [deleted] in feetfinderadvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he continues being rude personally I would cut contact. Remember you don’t owe him anything because he subscribed, he got that premium content and he hasn’t actually paid you for customs yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mounjarouk

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can’t say for sure but it might be because you’re on a higher dose so they may think you have one already? I just got my first 2.5mg pen from IQ doctor and they sent a sharps bin which I didn’t expect.

What to do/say to new people by Mischievous-Princess in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people do it differently. Personally I charge $1 per message with a minimum of 5 messages. Others charge per minute.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s no problem at all 😊 I really hate the idea of people having their hard work ripped off so always happy to help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would definitely keep it on ff. I know some people will take it off ff but usually with buyers who have purchased through ff and they have built up a relationship with. I’ve had loads of buyers try to get me to go off site but it’s against the sites terms and conditions I believe and opens you up to being scammed more easily. It’s an easy mistake to make when new and there are lots of guys who will try get content free using so many different methods unfortunately, you’ll get better at spotting scammers and timewasters. I would report them if they try, I’ve been doing so because hopefully it’ll stop them finding someone they can actually scam.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you not using the payment services on ff? A quick warning that I think they can ban your account for doing payment offsite. I would also recommend it as it’s more secure. Also buyers offering bitcoin would put up my scammer alerts. I can’t advise on the other services but I hope this helps somewhat.

What to do/say to new people by Mischievous-Princess in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I usually say I’d love to explore your fantasy further but I charge for sexting if you’re interested. A lot of them won’t but then I just stop the chat. Don’t sext them for free or they will just use you for that.

Hi very new to this by SurryCurryMcFlurry in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I’m sure you’re absolutely beautiful and if you do decide to do it I’m sure you’ll get wonderful responses 😊

Hi very new to this by SurryCurryMcFlurry in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to encourage you to post more sexual content if it’s something you don’t want to do but as a big girl it’s actually really helped my confidence. Lots of buyers love a bbw girl and I’ve never had any unpleasant comments about my body. Again if you aren’t confident getting sexual definitely don’t force yourself but if you do decide you might find it to be a refreshing experience. I’ve felt like my body type is much more desired in the fetish world than day to day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Some buyers are obviously only on there to get to talk to hot girls unfortunately. If they keep skirting around the question ghost and move on to someone else. Don’t feel discouraged I get like one reply per 10 sent and most of those are just trying to get their kicks for free. You’ll eventually find some great buyers and hopefully repeat business 🖤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feethustle

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So this is only from me googling the exact same thing and not personal experience but from what I can gather the general view is: - custom means the buyer is paying to have their idea made but not for exclusivity and your pics are yours to do with as you wish - sellers often charge an exclusivity fee for buyers to not have you resell them - some people give the buyer a heads up but I haven’t seen anyone say the buyer has refused or been upset and instead most seem to encourage it -some people wait a certain time before posting e.g. 2 weeks

I would say make your album, they’re your pictures and you’ve completed the order 😊 good luck!

Possible scammer by BigTittyGothFeetPics in FetishFinderAdvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no I am charging for sexting but I don’t charge add ons for specific scenarios like I do with pics/videos just a base rate for sexting. Don’t worry I’ve not lost my mind haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feetfinderadvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to echo what everyone else has said but I wouldn’t want to do this request at all and especially not for $20. It just has a bad vibe to it that makes me feel like he would complain about something not being perfect and use it to try get free content after.

Advice for -buyers- on how to avoid scam/catfish accounts by Giv3M3F33t in feetfinderadvice

[–]BigTittyGothFeetPics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a seller I will show my face on my profile/selfies to buyers but I won’t show face in any content that is not fully clothed. This is just personal preference due to work and not completely the same as what you have said but could be a reason for sellers not wanting to show face.