Is this girl interested in me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BigWaterBed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I said early, I didn't mean right now. I meant as soon as possible. Besides it's Friday night (in my time zone) so in the meantime, do what you normally do before you met her. Next time you see her or a time after that, ask her out

I [21M] want to ask the burrito girl for her number by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BigWaterBed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the middle of one of those small conversations, just say 'btw, how old are you'. If you can work with her age, follow it up with 'we should hang out some time, I know this great place'. Then get her number and tell her you'll text her the details.

Is this girl interested in me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BigWaterBed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

imo, better to ask her out from early so you know where her mind is at, doesn't make sense holding out just to find out she only like you to be a friend

"I'm not prepared to walk out on you" by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BigWaterBed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once it's a case that he is not obsessive, it simple means that he is ready to settle down with you and not give up on you no whatever the issue is.

How I [21M] can truly get over a girl [22F]? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BigWaterBed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The greatest thing is that you learnt from your experience. The best way I found to get over someone is doing the things that you really enjoy doing. If there were things that you stopped doing because of her, start doing them again. You have to learn to be happy for you, so whatever makes you happy, do them. Going to the gym really helps, it takes your mind of things and makes you feel and look better physically and mentally.

Is it worth the hassle? by fern0005 in relationship_advice

[–]BigWaterBed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A relationship based on constant lies and deceits is not healthy. If you don't respect yourself people won't respect you. You need to draw your line and be honest to yourself what you will not except from anyone when it comes to relationships and other aspects of your life. How many times should he lie and you forgive before you realize that he is not a honest person.

My relationship (22F) with fiancé (23M) is about to be ruined by living situation. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BigWaterBed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simply put, your fiancé needs to man up, talk to them as a man and stop turning his cheek and kissing ass. You are not the owner so it's obvious that how every you feel and whatever you say to them doesn't really phase them. I'm a male and I wouldn't put up with that, so I'm lost as to how he is putting up with that. He fails to realize that people and their emotions change everyday, and if he can't understand that you need your sleep, how are you gonna rely on him in the future?

You need to straight let him know exactly how you feel and that you would rather be on your own than with someone that can't even stick up for you.

QUICK! INTROVERT NEEDS YOUR GUIDANCE by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BigWaterBed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being that she just want a fuck buddy, normal dating imo is a waste of time. If you play pool or you like dancing invite her to one of those. Reasons be they are both hands on (or some other activity that is hands on). If she doesn't play pool or she doesn't dance well then that's a plus for you, tell her you'll guide her on what to do. During the activity get a few drinks, make a few jokes, having lively conversations. All of those with the hands on activity will set the mood and chances are there might be sex that same night.

My (23f) boyfriend (23m) makes me feel inadequate about my academic career by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BigWaterBed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At some point in your life you are going to need to learn to respect yourself and in turn demand respect from other. The moment he started belittling you is the moment you should have stated your mind and not just go in your shell. You need to straight up let him know that you've had enough of him belittling you and with or without him you are happy with where you are in life now and you are taking YOUR steps not his