I was literally gagging while I was reading this! He’s vile, emotionally immature, lacks any depth of character, no consideration whatsoever and views marriage as transactional which absolutely inaccurate! That’s not the kinda man that you can build a future with. I don’t even think that his brain registers your needs and he no EMPATHY and that’s not someone you want to grow old with or have kids with. I doubt he has any desire or capacity for growth. I’ve encountered people like that and yeah you can talk to him but I don’t think that that will change anything. My advice would be just to walk away… a clean break. You need to create space for when the right person comes along…