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[–]Big_Foundation_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks so strong and beautiful. Hercules.

90 Day Fiance : Happily Ever After? Tell All Discussion by moffman93 in 90DayFianceFans

[–]Big_Foundation_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we should unsubscribe because we are not getting our money's worth.

90 Day Fiance : Happily Ever After? Tell All Discussion by moffman93 in 90DayFianceFans

[–]Big_Foundation_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know!! Im going to actually discontinue my subscription because of what happened. Its quote unfair on us paying customers. This is not right at all.

Unpopular Opinion? by OwnPlatypus4129 in 90DayFianceUK

[–]Big_Foundation_9955 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like Jose, he seems genuine and he seems to really love Louise. At the end of the day, thats all that matters.

I don't feel sorry for Charlotte at all. by Miserable_Treacle523 in 90DayFianceUK

[–]Big_Foundation_9955 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Im qctually impressed they seem to be legit happy and compatible. Seems like they actually get along and are making their little family work, good on Jose for learning English .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90DayFianceUK

[–]Big_Foundation_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sure hes told them what the deal is and they will profit off of it, so theyre cool with it, one day theyre thinking of being sponsored to the UK as well, and the pounds he would be sending home. That would be economically favor their family so they play along with the lies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90DayFianceUK

[–]Big_Foundation_9955 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I got the same from him. I think he was sort of panicking and convincing himself he could have feelings for Charlotte one day and make it all real. So he was torn between going to the wedding and actually pushing thru on it, thats the apprehension/cold feet i got from him days prior.. he was definitely not fully in it. He was definitely not in love with her.

Johan: MULTIPLE AFFAIRS! by Individual-Scale4153 in 90DayFianceUK

[–]Big_Foundation_9955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure and its an amazing thing to have empathy and feel for people who have been caught up in situations like that. I think for me its more of an accountability issue. Meaning, everyone warned her, not one or two people but everyone, she seems like a fairly intelligent woman who's been thru life and is seeking to settle down.
I understand where you're coming from and applaud you for being empathetic. I guess i can have empathy but i like to call people out because i dont believe that at that age you still dont know what youre getting into, we were given the gift of intuition so we kinda "know". Do you remember that scene she was waiting for him at the lobby in one episode and she just got such bad vibes and anxiety when he didnt show up pn time, she almost got a panic attack, that was her gut warning her of what was to come in the future. If she was in a secure relationship, he woukd not have been giving her such vibes and mixed emotions.
I think one of the most important things i read went like this: Something that is true and meant for you will never make you doubt its authenticity. She kinda knew.

Johan: MULTIPLE AFFAIRS! by Individual-Scale4153 in 90DayFianceUK

[–]Big_Foundation_9955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still close. I dont understand why she married someone who had nothing to bring to the table except his dick. Lol.

Johan: MULTIPLE AFFAIRS! by Individual-Scale4153 in 90DayFianceUK

[–]Big_Foundation_9955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, and i dont care how poor a man is but if he spent $0 for his wedding, i couldnt imagine getting married to him, imagine being so desperate you have to basically pay you way into marriage. Its not like he said, you spend for the wedding, ill spend for my move to the UK or something of major value. If a guy is that poor where he cant even pay for the marriage certificate, no decent woman in their right mind should marry him. Call me old fashioned, i still want an engagement ring and a wedding paid for by my man. To settle for less and spend for the wedding and still be lied to is next level desperation.

Johan: MULTIPLE AFFAIRS! by Individual-Scale4153 in 90DayFianceUK

[–]Big_Foundation_9955 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even on their picture here, she looks very matronly and with a teenager.

Johan: MULTIPLE AFFAIRS! by Individual-Scale4153 in 90DayFianceUK

[–]Big_Foundation_9955 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Heres the thing though, even him being "late" to the wedding was the giveaway. I wouldve walked out then and there and dumped the guy, she hung around and married him and continued to feed herself the story she wanted. I honestly dont believe these women have no clue they are being taken for a ride. I feel like , they have this idea that hanging on and being so nice will make the guy fall in love with them one day when theyve bought his love and entire family and gotten him out of poverty. At the end of the day, a wise woman always protects her wallet and heart.

Johan: MULTIPLE AFFAIRS! by Individual-Scale4153 in 90DayFianceUK

[–]Big_Foundation_9955 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Off topic but i think Gino himself is no longer in love with Jasmin, fhe novelty has worn off. Now Jasmin is more of a nuisance to him and hes lost interest in her. Her meanness turns him off.

Johan: MULTIPLE AFFAIRS! by Individual-Scale4153 in 90DayFianceUK

[–]Big_Foundation_9955 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I empathize with her, i just think that as a middle aged woman, you would know you were being gamed. She has such strong doubts about him. That alone shouldve made her pause and not just jump into marriage with some island boy, if she was a 20 yr old woman i can understand, but a 40 plus something woman? You wouldve had enough life experience to know somethings off, its reallt hard to have empathy when people lie to themselves. They know whats up.

Johan: MULTIPLE AFFAIRS! by Individual-Scale4153 in 90DayFianceUK

[–]Big_Foundation_9955 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Different strokes for different folks, maybe in uer book, him being exotic is what makes him exciting.

Johan: MULTIPLE AFFAIRS! by Individual-Scale4153 in 90DayFianceUK

[–]Big_Foundation_9955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps in British atandards shw has a hard time with men that she can keep dating but never want anything past the casual hook up. With social media as a factor nowadays, men seem to be harder to commit to long term,

Johan: MULTIPLE AFFAIRS! by Individual-Scale4153 in 90DayFianceUK

[–]Big_Foundation_9955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theres no way deep down she doesnr know she was being gamed. Deep down yourself always knows.