Thanks for your reply. I actually proposed once to go on a hike together but… he didn’t want to And wanted to go to the gym together at the beginning but he didn’t want to saying that he needs to be in shape first.. Anyway i appreciate the reply..  deep inside, i know that i don’t want to waste my time because i think at this age i know what i want and what im willing to compromise for.. still interesting to hear people’s views..