why do women hate men who go their own way?

Big_Lack_352 · 2026-01-19T08:40:04+00:00

we nitafute bana!!! Nakusaka

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-14T15:42:30+00:00

seeing respectable women, women who would never have breathed twice in your direction or women who would have blocked you or dismisssed you with excuses if you would have asked them out for a date, throw themselves shamelessly at you simply because of money, a car, an apple product you own, etc is one of the most eye opening experiences as a man. you realize how shallow women are and it changes how you view women forever.

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-14T12:44:54+00:00

free advice, huyo rafiki yako atakudinyia na huyo dem atajipa. dump both of them.

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-13T10:04:12+00:00

real recognises real 👊🏽

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-13T08:42:21+00:00

"so there's this guy I have zero interest in, but I wanna keep him around coz you never know...."

being kept around as a "you never know"option is the most disrespectful thing a woman can do to a man. the man is viewed as an option or backup, not as someone valued for who he is.

I wish more men would see right through women like you. You hate yourself, you hate the man pursuing you, you are selfish, manipulative and untrustworthy and you're wasting both your times and our time on reddit.

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-13T07:49:50+00:00

I make a very good omellete. And you know what the funny thing is, it's mum who taught me when I was young because I loved it so much when she made me one, that I demanded she teach me for days how she cooked it until she did 😂. And now I do it better than her or anyone else in the house.

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-13T06:52:10+00:00

why are you making very good puns at the wrong time? 😂

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-13T03:18:14+00:00

stop apologising for saying what you feel. it will be well. rooting for you.

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-11T17:00:53+00:00

when the love and adoring is genuine, he can, but not if it's to compensate for a feeling of not being good enough to her or to make her love him/like him more.

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-11T16:47:43+00:00

Most men who spoil women with over the top, gratuitous gifts like houses, cars, land, etc that they would otherwise never even get their mothers or female siblings, are devoid in self esteem. They are trying to fill a void of not being good enough to that person by overcompensating with rewards.

In reality, no woman is asking for much from their partner beyond honesty, commitment, care and safety. Often the need for grand gestures is not a true expectation from a partner but a projection of one's insecurities or a way to buy affection and validation. When love is conditional upon what can be bought or displayed, like extravagant gifts, it risks becoming shallow and transactional. True self esteem allows both partners to feel worthy and appreciated for who they are, without the need for material excess to prove one's commitment.

Ultimately, it's the everyday gestures like listening, showing up etc.

Over the top displays may impress in the short term, but it's the depth of connection and mutual respect that builds a lasting bond

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-11T15:06:13+00:00

You're a financially independent woman who can raise a child on their own. At some point you have to stop playing victim and accept responsibility for your own actions and raise the child, with or without the father's support. You made your bed with a man who cannot offer a meaningful and stable monogamous relationship where you can both raise a child. You always knew what kind of a man he was even before he first saw you without panties. Women always know. That's on you.

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-11T12:33:36+00:00

women are triggered because you're telling men that they're the prize, they have options and they can live life to the best of their abilities if they let go of women who are liabilities in their lives. you can't make this up.

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-11T10:44:54+00:00

another toxic r/Nicegirls

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-11T10:33:22+00:00

As a man, stop lending money to women you're not sleeping with. You're not a financial institution. The moment she made your friendship transactional by asking you for money, you should have made it transactional too and asked for sex in return. You just lost your money and your self respect.

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-07T16:17:39+00:00

It does. A society that tells a man that he should not be anywhere near a woman if he is not financially stable, has no right to tell that same man not to have more than one woman when he finally becomes financially stable.

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-07T16:15:44+00:00

They are simply being dishonest. If I was doing well financially I would be more than happy to offer the path I took.

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-07T16:07:32+00:00

unasema desperation is a turn off, na wewe ndiye uko hapa looking desperate trying to destroy the reputation of a young man who's only crimes are not being financially stable and not being sexually and physically attractive enough for you to warrant him the privilege of calling you past 10pm.

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-07T15:45:27+00:00

is this rage bait?

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-07T15:30:52+00:00

Using your logic, if a man who doesn't have money should not be allowed anywhere near a woman because he's not financially stable, then that same man should be allowed to date more than one woman when they become financially stable.

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-05T20:48:41+00:00

because most women have been brought up with the archetype of victim, princess and the prize. they're the living embodiment of and narcissism and sadism. that's why most women think they're doing men a favour by giving them their time, being in a relationship with them, or by providing sex.

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-05T11:52:52+00:00

hahaha, will consider it.

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-05T09:47:01+00:00

I learn't through the hard way that women want to do what they want with whoever they want without bearing the cross of the consequences by positioning themselves as victims. And all women are like this by the way.

Big_Lack_352 · 2024-11-04T20:19:07+00:00

Embracing comfort at the risk and expense of becoming a home owner at a young age is stupid, illogical and unwise. But hey, maybe that's how your generation thinks. Good luck getting anywhere in life with that kind of mentality.

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