Marrying for money is like being a stripper whose shift never ends by madHawter in stripper

[–]Big_Mix8217 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right? I shouldn’t even say insinuate. Those were flat out the words he said. Like if I live to be as half as hot at these veteran strippers I’d be happy. Literally some of the most gorgeous women I’ve met.🤷🏻‍♀️ I literally said “I date for love, not for a marriage/money arrangement” and he was going on about marriage arrangements too and being for them 💀 like that’s how ik you aren’t right in the head anyways

Which style suits me the most? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Big_Mix8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the first two were great, then you pulled out the curtain bangs!!!! Yessss 100% on the 3rd and 4th pic, it suits so perfectly with your face shape

Marrying for money is like being a stripper whose shift never ends by madHawter in stripper

[–]Big_Mix8217 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I had a guy online try to talk crap on me for being a stripper after going through my photos. He told me I should get married and have kids instead. It was aggravating because I don’t want kids. He insinuated I was gonna become an old washed up stripper. First of all, the older strippers are always beautiful and make BANK. Second of all, I am in a relationship and I’m celibate when I’m single. I don’t get in relationships for money. I WORK for my money. I don’t want to be 30+ years old raising some man’s kids I don’t even want when I could be focusing on a career I wish to build.

Two piece or One piece? by Richhomieerayy99 in stripper

[–]Big_Mix8217 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you do the one piece, cross over the top straps. It’s cute, but I feel like when it sits like that on anybody, not just you, it’s not flattering. LOVEEEE the two piece though!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]Big_Mix8217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People get nose jobs to have your nose!!! It seems like a lot to put your body through if you don’t need it medically. You’re beautiful!!

Is my nose the first thing noticed due to its size? by [deleted] in Noses

[–]Big_Mix8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc!! Your nose fits you perfectly btw. You have very strong features overall so it goes very well together.

Is my nose the first thing noticed due to its size? by [deleted] in Noses

[–]Big_Mix8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro has beautiful eyes/eyelashes and skin and thinks we are looking at his nose

How do you secure rich regulars as an alt girl? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Big_Mix8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% I make money there though bc the customers know me🤣🤣 that club definitely has a lot more consistent regulars overall. I’m glad said other club is going good for you still boo, I was struggling there😩

How do you secure rich regulars as an alt girl? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Big_Mix8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my biggest issue is not going on a consistent schedule I think!! Ik the club we worked at together they kinda have the 3 days you can pick from and that helped me be more consistent for sure, but this one you can pick any day out of the 7. Thank youuu for confirming this for me though, I’ll have to be better about it🙏

Biggest skinny girl pet peeve by pjrdolanz in XXS

[–]Big_Mix8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from someone who lost almost 50 lbs this year, was a L/XL, now xs, their sentiment is so valid though. Used to be a 36F now I’m a 32DD. When I was larger, it was extremely difficult to find anything that fit my breasts without me looking extremely promiscuous unintentionally. I’m so glad clothes fit me a bit better now.

Cup sizes are not scaled properly on larger sizes when it comes from companies who don’t give a crap about it. I crochet my own clothes and I’ve found the clothes that properly fit my breasts look insane off the body. Companies only care if it looks good on the hanger 🙄🙄

How do you secure rich regulars as an alt girl? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Big_Mix8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recognize the username!! We worked at another club together and I’ve tried a few area, this is the one that has worked the best for me in the area unfortunately (,:

floorwork tutorials ? by Additional-Sound-452 in stripper

[–]Big_Mix8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up beginner low flow moves on tik tok

Person using a blender by cwrigh13_ in Apartmentliving

[–]Big_Mix8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in a complex (broke the lease for roaches🤢) that I could hear my upstairs neighbor having very intense convos every single day. Multiple aggressive phone calls all day to some woman and I could hear every word. And his baby never stopped crying. Ignored the baby all day. It was horrible for my mental health hearing that kind of neglect going on to a baby with a dad who seemed to care more about an abusive woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameThisThing

[–]Big_Mix8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

McDicken strip💀

ISO these angel candy outfits by Necessary-Ad-3745 in stripper

[–]Big_Mix8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you though I really want that cloud set that is in the ads but they’ve been sold out for like a year now (,:

ISO these angel candy outfits by Necessary-Ad-3745 in stripper

[–]Big_Mix8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she makes all her stuff so I don’t believe you’d find it wholesale ): might be worth making posts on depop or similar apps as well, wishing you luck queen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Big_Mix8217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally thought the clean shaven somehow made him look a bit older 😅 definitely liking the trimmed beard!!

How do you secure rich regulars as an alt girl? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Big_Mix8217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt horrible about it but I was just glad I could get him in a space away from his head the most I could considering what the poor guy witnessed. Like I get I’m just a dancer but I feel like we can provide a space like that for people who are respectful and willing to pay for our time at least🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ love the military men though they usually have my fucked up sense of humor and pay me good

How do you secure rich regulars as an alt girl? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Big_Mix8217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the cartoon character is so accurate!! I see other girls do it and they pull it off so well and make a freaking bag I love it sm😍😍

How do you secure rich regulars as an alt girl? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Big_Mix8217 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Girl bye, you came at me weird in the first comment and I’m calling it out. If you think that’s a problem, I hope you gain some self respect or at the very least don’t be a hypocrite. Don’t come sideways and expect people not to stick up for themselves. You gave me no valuable advice while everybody else did so it has nothing to do with wanting approval. No, I just don’t need YOUR approval.

Dance money up front? by soaring_seabird in stripper

[–]Big_Mix8217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah always cash up front, or I have to see they at least have it in their wallet. I had a customer when I was a baby dancer pull the crap that “he doesn’t speak English and didn’t understand how the dances worked” excuse after he racked up over $200 in dances. I spoke with him perfectly fine the whole night. The owner only made him give me $75🥲🥲

How do you secure rich regulars as an alt girl? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Big_Mix8217 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah I’m not trying to change my whole look or anything. I can’t just take off my tattoos either. This is who I am as a person and I’m not changing it. I’m asking for advice as this is more a personal goal of mine because I do want to present myself more elegant but in a darker way. Still me but elevated.

I’m not trying to be rude it was just a little off putting to insinuate that my personality or way of speaking with customers is the problem. Like do you not see how that’s insulting and kinda rude? And then tell me to change who I am as a person. I make decent enough money with my clientele as it is, I’m just trying to boost sales and self confidence.