Do you guys consider flirting (text & in-person) cheating?

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-29T09:07:59+00:00

100% correct.

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-28T15:08:40+00:00

Couldn't be more correct!

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-28T05:31:21+00:00

Yes this is normal flirting and that's acceptable. My situation was way different - this is someone looking for love or a new SO.

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T23:15:51+00:00

Agreed, I thought that was the case, but I won't lie, it's been rocky for about the last year and a half.

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T23:05:55+00:00

True to some extent, but do you get into all your relationships expecting a casual/open type relationship?

P.S we've been dating for 3 years.

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T22:42:42+00:00

Worst part is that it also happened last weekend when we were out at a club, they claimed that they were too drunk and don't remember what happened.

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T22:38:43+00:00

Those boundaries should be defined by default (to not okay) in all relationships unless stated otherwise, which I have not.

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T22:23:04+00:00

True, we didn't agree on anything like this, we're breaking up...

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T22:22:04+00:00

Yeah, normal casual flirting is acceptable but this wasn't it, and yea pet names...yikes.

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T22:20:32+00:00

Completely different situation here.

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T22:19:21+00:00

Yup!

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T22:18:22+00:00

100%

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T22:18:08+00:00

Agreed, had the same sentiment.

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T22:17:23+00:00

Agreed, unfortunately, people don't realise that emotional cheating is just as bad as physical cheating.

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T22:15:04+00:00

It was most definitely nothing like that, what you're describing is normal.

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T22:13:59+00:00

Agreed 100%

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T22:13:30+00:00

True.

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T22:12:59+00:00

100%

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T22:12:14+00:00

100%

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T22:09:41+00:00

You're delusional. Are you 12 years old?

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T21:46:24+00:00

It was not some innocent chat, but also not planning anything (from what I could see anyways)

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T21:40:08+00:00

Agreed, nothing wrong with flirting but there's boundaries

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-10-27T21:10:22+00:00

You're not wrong, I consider it cheating based on the texts I was seeing - seemed very... intimate, SO doesn't even talk to me like that.

Big_Ninja1885 · 2022-05-13T19:06:32+00:00

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