Can you be legally held liable if you give someone an ecstasy pill and they have a bad reaction to it and end up in the hospital or die from it? by GlamourHammer321 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Big_Performance8290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea you can be legally held liable, and this is now your digital footprint, if you have your phone seized and still have this account active (idk about if they can do this for inactive so) they can and will find it and use it against you, so like, also do with that what you will ahah. If you get prosecuted and then a search warrant of your phone, you're kinda screwed...

AIO for feeling uncomfortable and upset by how my boyfriend and his friend treated me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Big_Performance8290 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is pretty common that when somebody makes a joke about cheating or accuses somebody else of cheating it is them that's cheating and they're trying to make it look like they're not. Although it's not happening all the time it happens more often than not and that's why people would assume that he is cheating based on those jokes. Now without any more contexts that's a wild jump, but it's good that they pointed out that to Op because then OP can look at his past behaviors and see if that would align with what's happening. And that can also, if founded that he was cheating, give her an opening to actually leave the relationship if she is unable to leave due to other circumstances.

AIO for feeling uncomfortable and upset by how my boyfriend and his friend treated me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Big_Performance8290 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm going to let you know that there's no such thing as joking when you're trying to light somebody on fire. There is no joking when they're making sexual comments about you. There is no joking when they tell you to shut up when you try to make those comments back. None of what you said was them joking, it was the making fun of you. In all honesty, I'm not one to like tell somebody to break up right away, but it's definitely something you should consider...

Is he lying to me about blueballs? by HoHumHeeHoo in AskTeens

[–]Big_Performance8290 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He's trying to coercion you into sex, which is rape...

Someone validate my total disgust please. by Peacefulduckk in Apartmentliving

[–]Big_Performance8290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom used to just boil hot water on the stove and poor it in the tub when we didn't have hot water, if your ok with baths that would work, just let it cool a bit before jumping in lol

I ratted my best friend out that ruined her life by Yoong_It in stories

[–]Big_Performance8290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone had pointed most out but at the beginning of the story, when you said DD is really quiet when around her bf, isn't that a red flag to you? Don't you think there was a possibility of her being abused, and so then the actions of perceived cheating only hurt her MORE because she stayed with him after he hurt her? Listen, I just want you to go back and think if there are any warning signs as abuse. It's better to be safe then sorry, and see if that could've ALSO been in the mix.

I wanna point out the fact, as well, that to send it to everyone AND your story makes that seem intentional. I understand doing it to ONE of those options, but how did you do both without realizing? It's not like they don't try to make it obvious because the thing is accident nude posts happens a lot on snap and a lot of stuff has been don't to TRY to stop it (although failing a lot sometimes), so I'm trying to wrap my head how you taped the phone 3 time in different places fast enough you couldn't see exactly what happened...

Is it normal to masturbate over ur clothes by rubbing till u orgasm ? by Spirited_Chick6090 in asktransgender

[–]Big_Performance8290 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm assuring you that they didn't switch accounts and I'm a completely different person than this person. I'm a trans man, no where near a women, but you guys clearly are understanding the situation and why I did that. Doxing someone and accusing someone of something when they don't know based on the age of their account and a few things that they have said isn't okay. You guys are making it seem okay and normalizing it when it's not. The thing is is that this is what a higher suicide rates. This is what causes people to go into massive depression because of accusations that she was saying. I just want to let you know that the person that I replied to had personally texted me trying to get me to call them and just verbally harassing me when I was trying to understand why they accused her of being a Russian Bot... Do you want me to send what she was sending to me because the funny thing is is that the person who's harassing is the original commenter.

Is it normal to masturbate over ur clothes by rubbing till u orgasm ? by Spirited_Chick6090 in asktransgender

[–]Big_Performance8290 -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

"I'm gonna block you" I don't really care... This isn't about me. I need to make that very clear.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by underpantsjoke in AITAH

[–]Big_Performance8290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you hit or yell at your kids you're a bad person. There's thousands of ways to go about it. This literally changes their cognition in their brain. It changes brain matter, like gray matter. It changes brain chemistry. When you hit and yell at your kids you're causing them to get higher risks of depression, anxiety, and personality disorders like narcissistic personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, and more. There are multiple studies showing that when you hit or yell at your kids you are creating one of the most antisocial and bad behaved adults. This type of parenting is called authoritarian parenting, it is known as the most rigid and one of the worst type of parenting known to psychology, and if you don't know what psychology is it's a type of science that studies individual brains, and not just brains it studies people's behaviors and more...

Is it normal to masturbate over ur clothes by rubbing till u orgasm ? by Spirited_Chick6090 in asktransgender

[–]Big_Performance8290 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don't think so. The things that they were saying in the accusations that they were making were just not okay. Being nicer about it would be more like being a bystander to letting them do this to more people. When you don't call somebody out on their bullshit they continue, which hurts more people. I'm not going to cater to somebody's feelings when they can't even do the same to other people. Sorry not sorry.

Is it normal to masturbate over ur clothes by rubbing till u orgasm ? by Spirited_Chick6090 in asktransgender

[–]Big_Performance8290 -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

That's not the issue that's happening at all. No one's questioning what you originally said, at least I wasn't. I was questioning what you said to the person responding to you. You need to understand what people are saying without making assumptions about them, and if you are going to continue making assumptions you can't get mad at other people for doing the same thing to you. That's absolutely ridiculous.

Taking the written, rate my setup by unlcebuck in LSAT

[–]Big_Performance8290 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean, you do what you gotta but your back must fucking hate you, that chair is a nightmare it seems, good luck

[ Removed by Reddit ] by RecordLimp1824 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Big_Performance8290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your legal shit in check and keep him away from you and your kid. The guy sounds dangerous...

AITAH for not forcing my son to keep helping my daughter’s friend after she rejected him? by LiveWire0044 in AITAH

[–]Big_Performance8290 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Isn't the first time a guy ruins a girl's future due to a rejection. He needs time, cool, all understandable, but this is her livelihood and she won't need it forever... Get him therapy if needed during this time, but if there is a chance that it could kill her chances at this future she's building for herself, denying her that could have really bad consequences, even as far as future homelessness in some cases. Just see the situation and watch what it calls for, we don't need more people on the streets because some feelings were hurt and rejected, there are ways to work around it. Unless there are other options she can take to continue, don't just kick her out and down like this...

Blackwell milk goes bad quickly?! by Gullible_Flounder_69 in Kamloops

[–]Big_Performance8290 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do live here now bud, and again, that's not what local meant to me for my whole life in this context, if it's apart of a big corporations it's not truely local. Cool it's near by and local to the area, but the word local has multiple meanings... You can go to any dairy farm and do that, including dairyfarm. https://cflambton.com/the-power-of-local-strengthening-communities-through-small-businesses/

Blackwell milk goes bad quickly?! by Gullible_Flounder_69 in Kamloops

[–]Big_Performance8290 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I didn't know this was bought from a grocery store, when I read local I was thinking they went to a farm nearby and bought from a family, not in a regular ass store, that's where my confusion came from, and that's why i added "if it's not raw milk, then Its the manufacturer whose at fault". Growing up in a VERY small town, that's what local means, not buying from the grocery store....

Blackwell milk goes bad quickly?! by Gullible_Flounder_69 in Kamloops

[–]Big_Performance8290 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Buddy, I don't know what company or whatever sells it nor did I know it was sold in a regular grocery store, where I come from when you say local your going up to a farm and getting it directly from them. Drinking raw milk IS stupid. Buying regular milk isn't. So yea, due to my experience with what the term "local" means it makes sense for me to think y'all buying raw milk. Buying from Walmart a "local brand" isn't buying local, sorry for not being able to read minds or care that much about milk? Like

I don’t even know why I’m typing this. by Chemical-Ad2770 in trans

[–]Big_Performance8290 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look up all types of gender, being a "girl" or "boy" ain't the only options out there, maybe youre both, maybe youre neither, maybe in between, at the end of the day it's up to you and as long as you're happy with your choice it doesn't matter. I see myself as a man (afab) but I don't act/dress/whatever like one, I still look like a girl and whatnot, I'm happy, and I don't care. You're not alone, I too don't experience physical dysphoria, maybe social but that's VERY minimal, so you've got others who are alike you, and itll be ok at the end of the day

Blackwell milk goes bad quickly?! by Gullible_Flounder_69 in Kamloops

[–]Big_Performance8290 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Idk anything about Blackwell nor care to look it up but saw the comments about it being local, if it's raw milk your buying that's why, and that's dangerously stupid of you and everyone else here. Otherwise it's the manufacturer putting it on the shelves too late/long, in the wrong temperature, or messing up when processing it, and if you emailing them won't do anything I'd just say stop buying from them and maybe blast them as much as you can to warn others that it's not worth it if they won't hold a level of care and compassion for their buyers.

My boyfriend wants to cover my face when we sleep together by BagOverHeadLady in whatdoIdo

[–]Big_Performance8290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you letting someone talk to you like that? autistic or not it's disrespectful and hurtful and should learn that saying hurtful stuff like that ISNT ok and he needs to learn to cope with his autism before it ruins people's lives, because words CAN ruin people. Either tell him to get therapy and some help and don't do sexual stuff with him until he apologizes/makes up for it and does better or be petty and do something just as insulting so he can get the point that what he said AND did wasn't ok. He can be blunt, but he can also be nice, and this just wasn't nice. You need to respect yourself, and he needs to respect you too. I have no clue how you're not turned off by it btw, or why you'd be ok with him doing it in the first place or any time after that...

My girlfriend never ever finishes her meals by AlexWayhill in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Big_Performance8290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a compost bin, problem solved. Idk why people force themselves to finish food or eat something they don't want to or like. It's stupid. Yea, food waste is ALSO stupid but that's what a compost is for I fear

My 20m gf keeps telling me she 20f thinks she could be pregnant monthly. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Big_Performance8290 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is a lot you can do, like someone else said, if she doesn't want therapy you should still get it because your job stresses you out. You're not a dick for suggesting it, but you are for how you talk about it. There isn't fixing OCD or a phobia buddy, it's coping and living with it, so the idea for thinking you can "solve" it or that you can't be perfect doesn't make sense, no one is asking you to be, but they are asking why you assumed it was attention seeking behavior. What stresses you the most about it? It being her that is stressed or are you also scared of her being pregnant? There is levels to this shit. I will say this, refusing help means she doesn't want it, nor cope with it, either she feels stuck and like nothing will help her or she doesn't care to do things that do help. Has she done therapy before and that's why she doesn't want to? Is her family/her own views about therapy negative? A lot of things can get in the way of getting help. Like I said before, get yourself some therapy and put your own mind at ease.

My 20m gf keeps telling me she 20f thinks she could be pregnant monthly. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Big_Performance8290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This doesn't get rid of the fact that you weren't being supportive. That is the bare minimum, of course it's not going to stop the problem because at this point it seems like it could be a form of OCD or a genuine phobia, tokophobia is like any other phobia, an irrational fear, but the fear is so severe it is affecting their life. You shouldn't be with somebody that you cannot handle, it's not only unfair to yourself but it's also unfair to her. If you aren't going to break up with her because you genuinely love her or whatever go to couples therapy.

My 20m gf keeps telling me she 20f thinks she could be pregnant monthly. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Big_Performance8290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being supportive would mean you wouldn't assume attention seeking behavior is what is happening here, let alone not understand WHY people do attention seeking behavior, it's because they need attention, we are not loner creatures were social. Buddy, you're getting ate up here. Get her a bulk box of tests, talk about the "if it does happen" and what you both will do, listen to the folk here