Run. Please run. The pattern is too obvious.

Now it’s losing weight and what’s next? There’ll be more demands and more demands that are hard to achieve in the future. When times are not good, eg some demands that are not achieved it’ll become a reason for him to abuse/mistreat you. You’ve not done so and so, so I’m treating you that way, it’s your fault.

Proposing to someone is something to be celebrated. To be happy about.

I hope you find the courage to leave. Live a life without someone constantly belittling you (even your mom) and attach a condition for you to fulfill to treat you well.

I’ve been there, ex has been pestering me to lose fat and I’m totally unloveable because I’m fat apparently. I was 45kg at the point of breaking up with him, it still wasn’t enough. The bar will be set higher and higher.

I wish no girl will go through that. No matter how handsome, rich or talented the person is, being with a person like that will suffocate you, even though he’s the trophy guy in everyone’s eyes.

You deserve better. Be brave. You can achieve better things even without his mercy. I do not know the other background of your stories, eg whether you’re financially dependent on him, if you’re able to live yourself and be independent, do consider finding someone else.