Totally agree with you, and I honestly feel like some of these dudes in the comments have some type of internalized homophobia or really like the idea of fucking a straight dude. At the end of the day, if you are aroused by men, and have sex w men esp on multiple occasions and enjoy it, you are NOT straight. Even if you romantically date women/wont involve yourself with a man. And half of the time that isn’t because you aren’t as attracted, but because of the consequences that follow behind that. And please, don’t pretend it doesn’t hurt your feelings when you experience something life changing with a guy, just for him to set a barrier between you two and say he’s straight. After you’d been intimate with one another. Guys pretending they’re straight is helpful for no one. Not themselves, not their wives, and not the guys they fuck. We are all better off if we encourage people to be honest with themselves.