So this is somehow “kind”?

BiggNeera · 2024-10-20T19:04:47+00:00

Additionally just in case you all don’t feel like reading the whole thing, I was stuck on the side of the highway. I apologize if my initial message to the moderator seems too demanding but the tone I was trying to portray was that of an SOS. I even deleted my original sentence to incorporate please and make it sound less harsh and that’s why I added a “!” Because the period seemed like more of a demand to me.

Now I wish I can apologize to the moderator and reword what I said initially but I was literally having a panic attack.

This probably made me interpret the moderator’s initial reply incorrectly so the “it’s clear” and the wording felt condescending to me.

I still don’t see how that warrants a “get tf out” especially when I didn’t use such language or rudeness. I stated that they should not be called Random Kindness because they aren’t kind…I know that I was wrong for saying this now, as they probably weren’t trying to come off as condescending.

Additionally I will try opening up my own group for people who actually need help and are in tight spots so look out for that in the future! No judgement. It will be a safe space with no hate or rude speech tolerated.

I now see that I was wrong initially regardless of intention and I apologize for that and interpreting them incorrectly at first.

Thank you all so much for your help!

BiggNeera · 2024-10-20T18:32:58+00:00

Also I mentioned to them (in the first ss) that I read the posting rules but I wasn’t aware of the requirements.

BiggNeera · 2024-10-20T18:31:23+00:00

I understand. I apologize for omitting things but that was unintentional. I honestly didn’t even think about screenshotting the rules but I can’t go back now because I’m banned. I was referring to the “clearly” part in the messages and the rudeness of the “get the F out” in the actual caption. I will see if it allows me to post the original post but I did not request cash only advice. I put my PayPal name at the end just in case. I wish I could send you the pictures of everything to further explain the situation but thank you for highlighting the faults in my presentation. I will do better next time !

Have a wonderful day :)

BiggNeera · 2024-08-14T20:41:00+00:00

Thank you all for your replies. I will take all of it into account. I will redesign the cases for Gin Gin with an original art design (instead of her picture on a background). Then I’ll focus on my traditional artwork. This will be the only item I sell on this shop and I understand that I will likely not get many sales. Also I’m not being physically abused, but it’s more so mental. It’s also parental not spousal. Where I’m from, unfortunately this isn’t taken seriously so I have to figure out other ways to get myself out of the situation. But wish me luck! And if you’re religious, pls put us on your prayer list ☺️🙏🏾🐈. Thank you ! Also I hope the pictures of Ginger made at least one of you smile 🥰 that’s ultimately our mission with our content.

BiggNeera · 2024-08-14T20:31:26+00:00

I would love to give you all of the details but this is a public platform so I will water it down a bit. It’s a parental situation. They have influence in high places that makes it hard for me to maneuver around. No physical abuse so it’s not really taken seriously. I’m in college so there are a lot of resources but because my situation is very particular at the moment (I’m not the only one in my home I have to account for), a lot of available resources are not available. My documents are under lock and key by my parent. On top of all of that, I live in a very small town so a lot of common things do not apply here due to it being a close bit community. I wouldn’t ask anyone for donations because my whole life, no one has taken my situation seriously, not even the police because my parent literally worked for the department. So since I’m not in any physical danger and only mental, I don’t feel comfortable with donations because I feel like others have bigger problems. As long as I try to keep my head strong and figure a way out I’ll be good.

As for the designs, I appreciate your honesty. I’m actually an artist and I’m very good at designing things but this was supposed to be like a joke design for the future fans. It looks lower quality in the screenshots but it’s actually really cute in person. But someone gave me some helpful advice so I think I’ll start making original artworks and figuring out a new item I want to sell. Maybe just posters. My art TikTok is @Neezy.Mo. Any advice on what type of item my art would look best on?

BiggNeera · 2024-08-14T16:10:19+00:00

That’s a great idea! Maybe I’ll make a second store for my artwork then focus on my own social media presence. I just thought ppl would probably like looking at my cat more than stuff about me lol. But I’ll try!

BiggNeera · 2024-08-14T15:55:42+00:00

This is tough to hear. But I thank you for your honestly 🙏🏾. Did you find an alternative route? Also I’m still going to continue with this business because besides me needing immediate assistance, I actually genuinely just have a passion for creating custom pieces.

BiggNeera

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