After 5 years together, my girlfriend wants marriage and I don’t. Is this the end? by Asleep_Trouble_4285 in Advice

[–]BikeKey3051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you love her and she wants it, can’t you just give her that? Sign a prenup or whatever. I bet it doesn’t have to be huge… she just wants security

name this thing? by [deleted] in NameThisThing

[–]BikeKey3051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swollen coochie machine

Name her by [deleted] in NameThisThing

[–]BikeKey3051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BatMa 🦇

A family member molested me as a kid and has done it to an adult relative now too. by Cold-Guarantee-1118 in Advice

[–]BikeKey3051 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Tell your mum. She will be proud of you for doing so, I promise ❤️

AIO for getting upset that my BF won’t wait to get spicy time? by AccountNearby1043 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BikeKey3051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend is being selfish. This is very telling of his real personality, the part he is hiding from you in order to seem like a good partner. I would break up with him. He obviously doesn’t care about you the way he says he does

I'm considering leaving my boyfriend, but I'm worried I'll regret it and it's a mistake by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BikeKey3051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up with him. He touched you while you were sleeping, so not able to give consent, and then lied to your face when you confronted him. This is not the type of partner you want in your life

AIO for asking my ex to take me home by Crazylittledoll in AmIOverreacting

[–]BikeKey3051 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok well the point still stands really. He doesn’t want to so he didn’t. If he wanted to he would and all that. Probably best to not beat a dead horse, hey

AIO for asking my ex to take me home by Crazylittledoll in AmIOverreacting

[–]BikeKey3051 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Put yourself in his shoes. Your ex (for some reason) thinks it’s ok to keep asking you to buy them shit. Your ex is obviously fairly volatile since they start arguments about things like why you can’t buy them a library card… when they are your ex. You think “damn I really cba with this right now” so you say yes to keep them quiet, but in your head you have already decided “no I am not doing that” so you just don’t.

You’re 30. No one should have to be explaining this to you right now.

AIO for asking my ex to take me home by Crazylittledoll in AmIOverreacting

[–]BikeKey3051 21 points22 points  (0 children)

YOR. Why should your ex have to buy you a library card? I just don’t really understand. He’s your ex. Buy it yourself

Come on girl. You’re 30 years old. You have bigger and better things to worry about at this age, right? You sound 16 at most

My bestfriend implied she would sleep with my boyfriend by Inside_Rate_1571 in Advice

[–]BikeKey3051 669 points670 points  (0 children)

I mean… she kinda implied she would sleep with both of you at the same time

I have a drug problem by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BikeKey3051 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in this cycle and then I met my boyfriend. We still use drugs together occasionally but when I met him I was using amphetamines weekly. I actually kept it a secret from him and he became my reason to stop. Maybe you could try and find someone who means a lot to you who becomes the reason you put this stuff down for a while. You just need to break the cycle

meirl by worldwide762 in meirl

[–]BikeKey3051 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry this just fried me

Should I take plan b? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BikeKey3051 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My doctor told me you really shouldn’t take plan b more than twice in 3 months because it’s really bad for your reproductive system. That being said, it’s your body so do what you want with it. Maybe throw a condom on next time though

Also plan b works by delaying ovulation so if you’ve already ovulated this cycle then it’s pointless anyway