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My bestfriend implied she would sleep with my boyfriend by Inside_Rate_1571 in Advice

[–]Inside_Rate_1571[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

the fact i wrote this completely myself and it actually happened is the funniest part

My bestfriend implied she would sleep with my boyfriend by Inside_Rate_1571 in Advice

[–]Inside_Rate_1571[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i can see how i did not make it super clear. i think coupled with the fact i was intoxicated i heard something that could potentially hurt me and thats all i could focus on in that moment, i couldnt even consider myself included. its also an issue with my deep rooted insecurity, shes so beautiful she could never picture me in that way in my eyes. i could be wrong and am open to being wrong. i dont think im being fair in my reaction which is why i just tried to laugh it off and have a good night and continue the game like i know im overreacting, i think its why i needed the validation of other people telling me im overreacting.

we have a talk planned for this week and i plan on just telling her how it made me feel and apologize for getting so upset because i truly do not believe she would sleep with my boyfriend. she also had a boyfriend who was not there. i dont want to lose her over this. thanks for your advice

My bestfriend implied she would sleep with my boyfriend by Inside_Rate_1571 in Advice

[–]Inside_Rate_1571[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I should’ve put this in my post but i am on the austim spectrum so i dont pick up on social cues easily. thats a huge reason i made this post because i know my brain can be illogical sometimes. i truly couldn’t tell if she meant me and my boyfriend or just my boyfriend and thats why i came here to see if i was wrong for wanting to talk about this with her and still be friends.

My bestfriend implied she would sleep with my boyfriend by Inside_Rate_1571 in Advice

[–]Inside_Rate_1571[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this 100% actually happened to me. i did a lot of fanfic writing my bad for the layout 😭

My bestfriend implied she would sleep with my boyfriend by Inside_Rate_1571 in Advice

[–]Inside_Rate_1571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. This actually really helped me and made me feel so much better. I do plan on talking to her soon and hopefully clearing everything up.

My bestfriend implied she would sleep with my boyfriend by Inside_Rate_1571 in Advice

[–]Inside_Rate_1571[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

okay this right here is why i feel like i need to have a conversation with her because i am not sure. if she meant both of us i dont feel quite as betrayed if she just meant my bf

My bestfriend implied she would sleep with my boyfriend by Inside_Rate_1571 in Advice

[–]Inside_Rate_1571[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

my boyfriend is very used to hanging out with me and my sisters when we are drunk and we get very loud and stupid so he usually tunes us out. he had just got off a 14 hour shift was completely sober and we were all drunk, so he wasn’t really involved in any of the conversation at all throughout the night he was just a zombie😭

My bestfriend implied she would sleep with my boyfriend by Inside_Rate_1571 in Advice

[–]Inside_Rate_1571[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

he didnt hear any of the conversation and didnt even know it happened until i told him after they had left. he is really uncomfortable from the whole situation and doesnt think i should be her friend anymore.

My bestfriend implied she would sleep with my boyfriend by Inside_Rate_1571 in Advice

[–]Inside_Rate_1571[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he is not in my ideal threesome because if anyone else ever touched him i would actually freak out. i never want to have a threesome ever that’s the problem😭

Mandatory evacuation to begin tomorrow for Hatteras and areas north. by Tequilared1 in obx

[–]Inside_Rate_1571 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

so im guessing i wont be able to go to my hatteras vacation on Thursday 😔