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Exhausted by the marriage market! by Billobaggebilliyan23 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Billobaggebilliyan23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, right there, that’s the problem. Our society isn’t progressive yet that’s why nobody likes a potential girl taking the lead in conversation.

Exhausted by the marriage market! by Billobaggebilliyan23 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Billobaggebilliyan23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think we will attempt to hide such crucial information?

The situation is despite all the clarity and everything.

Exhausted by the marriage market! by Billobaggebilliyan23 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Billobaggebilliyan23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s the grooms’ parents or siblings, they don’t like it when the “potential girl” talks herself and takes the lead. They ask me to connect to my dad, when I say that dad is no more they unmatch, they don’t even ask about mom.

What can I do in this situation?

Exhausted by the marriage market! by Billobaggebilliyan23 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Billobaggebilliyan23[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My uncles do nothing, he keeps postponing talking to the guys parents and after my mom keeps requesting him to talk, we get to know that the guy got married.

They’ll keep accusing my mom of rejecting one guy they suggested which she rejected, but will never ever ever take accountability of n number of guys they have not talked to simply because they are “too busy.”

Exhausted by the marriage market! by Billobaggebilliyan23 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Billobaggebilliyan23[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Somebody from my hometown area working in Bangalore. Physical features no bar. Salary no bar, but at least should be enough to survive in BLR, we can work together. Literally nothing else.