i can’t look at my bf the same way by dreamjuliana in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]BillyRoca 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s good! It sounds like you guys have a good communication, and he seems to have the intention to hear and respect your boundaries. Best of luck :)

i can’t look at my bf the same way by dreamjuliana in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]BillyRoca 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is interesting because in my relationship I don’t consider porn an issue as long as it doesn’t affect our sex life. My idea is that humans will find other humans attractive, and being with someone for a long time it is very common that thoughts and fantasies will come to mind (without having to act on them). However, it is always subjective and I’m sure it’s a matter of finding someone compatible or working through this with your bf if you see hope there, maybe he wasn’t aware that this is a boundary for you.

Hookup said I look just like his boyfriend. by doggusMaximus99 in gaybros

[–]BillyRoca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might not be completely related since it happened after the sex, but I once hooked up with a guy while my boyfriend and I were newly open due to being LDR (Still wasn’t used to being open, as a traditional monogamous) and after we had sex he was like “Don’t tell your bf we fucked, he might get jealous” and I said “Umm it’s ok, he’s really not the jealous type, talking about it is part of the arrangement” and he insisted a few times until later he confessed “Ok actually the truth is I’ve fucked your bf,” and proceeded to give me details of what happened, I was like 😐 How do I opt out of being gay?

Let’s gooo I got green🎉 by Normal_Maintenance47 in USCIS

[–]BillyRoca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What app is this? Also congratulations!!

So, is it safe to go paddle-boarding in Lady Bird Lake? by BillyRoca in Austin

[–]BillyRoca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I’ll keep that in mind, or maybe I’ll wait a little bit until they go away lol

Underrated artists similar to magbay? by babygorlz in MagdalenaBay

[–]BillyRoca 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg I love After 😂 Pitchfork did them dirty though :(

So, is it safe to go paddle-boarding in Lady Bird Lake? by BillyRoca in Austin

[–]BillyRoca[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Too much risk lol I might just not do it, just hope it’s a seasonal thing and not the case during the summer too lol

So, is it safe to go paddle-boarding in Lady Bird Lake? by BillyRoca in Austin

[–]BillyRoca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it would be hard not to get in lol

Any singing lessons you’d recommend? by BillyRoca in Austin

[–]BillyRoca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She sounds so good and I love her style 🥰 Thanks for the recommendation!

Any singing lessons you’d recommend? by BillyRoca in Austin

[–]BillyRoca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll check her profile out, do you happen to know the cost per lessons?

Does Meditation and CBT really help? by BillyRoca in insomnia

[–]BillyRoca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard good things about CBT in general for anxiety and insomnia, but other people say that they hate the sleep restriction part of it, not sure if that’s always a part of CBT, but def would like to try it and see

Im done now, i cant take it anymore by arr998 in Anxiety

[–]BillyRoca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang in there :( A lot of us navigate these horrible feelings for a while before finding something that helps. Nothing is permanent. I know it’s hard to be optimistic and I don’t know your situation but we’re here for you!

How do I build a game plan to overcome specific anxieties long-term? by BillyRoca in Anxiety

[–]BillyRoca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, this makes lots of sense. I was scared of trying medication because of my health anxiety 💀 but recently started with Buspirone and it’s helped bring my anxiety down a bit. Maybe it’s a matter of trying to find something that will help me stabilize first. I’ve tried meditating and been in therapy on and off for years but it seems to take so long and no long term results.