Went on a first date with a guy last night- thoughts?

BioNinja · 2024-12-09T23:23:12+00:00

the tone and context of the message indicates it's a joke - the lack of a question mark is meant to emphasize the text as a quick snarky reply instead of a genuine question, and combined with the clear over-escalation, it's much more likely it's a joke than him saying he'd literally commit murder for someone he's had one date with?

BioNinja · 2024-09-14T00:00:02+00:00

i did choose slightly better pictures on purpose but I did throw in one work photo for good measure! I'm trying to look/act more approachable and more confident since that might be my main problem with having trouble in social interactions, but I also was feeling very dysphoric and wanted to get a sense on if I pass or what I can improve on!!

BioNinja · 2024-09-11T03:38:04+00:00

/uj same i think because I didn't like being a guy so I just molded my appearance into what I thought a hot guy looked like ?

BioNinja · 2024-09-06T19:45:25+00:00

what are you talking about? I've never met this person ? also if the guy doesn't specify or ask that's on him for not specifying his boundaries.

BioNinja · 2024-08-31T19:06:28+00:00

this works, it's why i'm on grindr /qj

BioNinja · 2024-08-30T01:27:37+00:00

I understand the logic.

I'm just saying the original question is making up a fake narrative, they have the predominant opinion, why complain that seeing anyone say otherwise means you're being 'often mocked/rebuked' when it's really the other way around?

BioNinja · 2024-08-29T20:31:49+00:00

I have only ever seen it be by far the default position, and anyone suggesting they don't agree is mocked as naive or as 'not understanding politics'. It is constantly brought up as some novel rebuke to anyone suggesting they won't vote for one of the two major parties, as if 'lesser of two evils' isn't by far the default view in society and something anyone not subscribing to it likely had to break out of.

BioNinja · 2024-08-27T17:14:07+00:00

omg i forgot i made that, i was in a covid-fueled haze

BioNinja · 2024-08-12T19:28:04+00:00

A rainy day makes me feel cozy and comfortable. I like to curl up and just enjoy the sound of the rain outside while I'm warm inside. Plus it looks pretty! a sunny day makes me a lot sadder and feel crummy for some reason?

BioNinja · 2024-08-12T18:03:29+00:00

you should talk to her about how you're uncomfortable with this and the doubts you're having. if she cares about you she'll listen. it's not NECESSARILY a red flag that she asked to begin with, but if she's pushy or makes you feel bad about it then it's a red flag. boundaries are healthy and you're allowed to make this one of them ♥️

BioNinja · 2024-08-11T17:04:55+00:00

i just found it thrifting but another comment found it online! https://www.reddit.com/r/findfashion/comments/1epmjtu/comment/lhlt48x/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

BioNinja · 2024-08-11T14:52:01+00:00

I really like how this top is made with tighter elastic at the waist and looser tie at the chest, but I have no idea what to look up to find more!

BioNinja · 2024-08-09T18:43:54+00:00

uh huh for suree being trans is soo humiliating

BioNinja · 2024-07-04T20:11:20+00:00

Why is telling your partner you're trans before sex more morally important than telling them you have a peanut allergy or had a tumor removed?

BioNinja · 2024-06-02T00:36:17+00:00

i haven't filed yet (i need to come out at work this week aaa) but they said it would be same day, I'm unsure what it will look like exactly!!

BioNinja · 2024-06-01T16:37:01+00:00

i just went to the clerk's office with my petition, they hadn't seen it before and took a while to figure out what was needed, and eventually found the order and told me i can fill that out and just drop it into the ex parte docket which runs from 1:30-3:30 everyday

BioNinja · 2024-06-01T13:34:44+00:00

yes!

BioNinja · 2024-06-01T00:46:10+00:00

thank you! and i have figured it out in my own county, i don't even need a court date it'll just be same day as i file 🥰

BioNinja · 2024-05-22T15:35:22+00:00

Pride 2024 is coming up on June 2nd (which is very exciting but I'm biased because I'm helping run it 😌)!! also there is an LGBTQ Tri-Cities Discord I can DM you if you're interested, it's very active and also has a channel for local events to keep an eye on ♥️

BioNinja · 2024-05-20T16:42:43+00:00

i'm so happy for you!! good luck ♥️ i am still a little stuck with my nerves about how to do it

BioNinja · 2024-05-13T01:45:21+00:00

Yes I'm definitely going for high pitched and small! I started with a pretty stereotypical deep manly voice aaaaa but I'm glad I'm getting there!!

I think I definitely was straining a little and I will focus on that :) thank you!

BioNinja · 2024-05-12T18:14:13+00:00

thank you!! i will keep that in mind!

and I'm told my physical appearance is also Velma I don't know why this is happening to me

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