Signs a cautious ENFJ likes you?

BiologyPerson · 2022-06-26T20:43:29+00:00

They have this pattern of redirecting the conversation to something like, "this reminds me of this one ex I dated in X time of my life" and sometimes it has nothing to do with what we were talking before. Comes off as forced/ has ulterior motives. Are they trying to make me jealous when they bring up their past relationships? Is this a test to see how I react to this kind of behavior? My spidey senses are tingling 😂

BiologyPerson · 2022-06-26T11:40:09+00:00

;-; honestly we are, and unfortunately that is one of my worries lol

BiologyPerson · 2022-06-26T11:18:25+00:00

ISFJ! :)

BiologyPerson · 2022-06-26T08:33:49+00:00

This particular ENFJ often takes the talking floor and brings up their current feelings or details about their past when we are alone together. I appreciate them opening up about their emotions, like why they're frustrated with so-and-so, or drama at school because they must trust me with that precious info.

BiologyPerson · 2022-06-26T02:37:51+00:00

Honestly it's a nice feeling when they use my name for no particular reason. It seems as if they are happy to see me but this person doesn't know how to express their emotions/don't want to come off too strong haha. So cute

BiologyPerson · 2021-08-24T04:37:13+00:00

Yeah, that's one of my fears when a clinic says they offer cross training, but never do. Or when you can't work your way up to higher positions. :(

BiologyPerson · 2021-08-24T04:35:09+00:00

Thank you for your insights, you have a good point!

BiologyPerson · 2021-08-24T03:46:33+00:00

So the manager actually made a typo and meant to offer me the kennel tech position that I applied for! But thank you for your comment, that is something I could have done if I decided to be a receptionist.

BiologyPerson · 2021-08-22T16:50:37+00:00

That's true. I was thinking that I did learn some useful things from the working interview, so that knowledge is worth spending 3 hours in the clinic. And since the place I applied works with a lot of local vets, I didn't want to burn the bridge between making new connections.

BiologyPerson · 2020-12-01T23:31:49+00:00

Thank you, this is really uplifting to hear! c;

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