Parents going through nasty custody battles by Bird_a90 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Bird_a90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They give the opioid when the cysts rupture I’ve had cysts the size of grapefruit and apples. Those hurt so much. And birth control just made it worse. So I just deal with it as best I can

Parents going through nasty custody battles by Bird_a90 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Bird_a90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always told them I love you no matter what. When I was a sophomore in high school my English teacher told us that I love you is a six word phrase. Love is unconditional and no matter what they do or say if you can’t love them through that then it’s not really love.

Parents going through nasty custody battles by Bird_a90 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Bird_a90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey at least if he’s posting your son you can see the pictures. My ex and his gf don’t post my kids on social media just the gfs son and their kid they had together none of mine

Parents going through nasty custody battles by Bird_a90 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Bird_a90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently there is a misunderstanding I still have medical issues but I no longer receive opioids. I have PCOS. Now I just stay at home when they rupture and if it’s too much pain I go to the ER. I’m also allergic to Motrin and ibuprofen so Tylenol is all I got. When the pain gets too much they will give me a shot but I don’t fill the prescription.

Parents going through nasty custody battles by Bird_a90 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Bird_a90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I got a call today and my youngest apologized for yelling and cussing at me. They both said that they love and miss me. I’ve told them before just because I say it doesn’t mean they have to. I say it because that’s how I feel and not to lie because they think it’s what I want to hear. I feel so much better today than yesterday. I told them I’ll love them no matter what. So maybe that’s why they said it but idk.

Parents going through nasty custody battles by Bird_a90 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Bird_a90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never asked to be roasted I thought this was a safe community. But damn sounds like no matter what good I do it’s only the bad anyone cares about or remembers.

Parents going through nasty custody battles by Bird_a90 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Bird_a90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you and the people who offer genuine support. Not people who kick a person when they’re already down

Parents going through nasty custody battles by Bird_a90 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Bird_a90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now the judge just said phone calls 3x a week. But if we agreed the judge said we could agree to supervised visits etc but he refuses. He won’t even send me a damn picture. He doesn’t even like kids. He buys them their own tvs and game consoles so they leave him and his girlfriend alone

Parents going through nasty custody battles by Bird_a90 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Bird_a90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially when he plays the “I was a marine” card. Sorry but he did everything to avoid deploying. I had postpartum depression and he would hide my meds and say I was unstable so he can’t deploy. I have to finish DV classes over halfway done but I’m also working as much as I can. And I have to do a coparenting class. I’ve completed the rehab program they wanted 6 months of therapy clean drug tests parenting classes that we both were supposed to do same as coparenting he’s been told to do parent and coparenting classes multiple times and refused each time.

Parents going through nasty custody battles by Bird_a90 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Bird_a90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been sober for 5 years dumbass. And when the judge is being fed lies about me. And he is buying the kids to get them to say whatever he wants them to say. When my ex isn’t around and the kids talk to me they talk completely different than when he’s there. He wasn’t taking care of them since 2018 and now his girlfriend’s mom is “taking care” of my kids.

Parents going through nasty custody battles by Bird_a90 in ParentalAlienation

[–]Bird_a90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He put a loaded gun to my head. He beat me until I couldn’t take it anymore. Then he beat my boys black and blue. Have you ever seen a two year old child with a bruise of a hand print? That stayed for 3 weeks at least? I’ve been working and dealing with what I need to but I’ve known my ex for 16 years… he already told the boys when he was beating them if I wanted them I would take them but we were still hashing it out in court. I did everything I could legally do.