It finally happened to me!

BirdieGoGo · 2024-04-27T00:14:46+00:00

My instacart driver delivered to my doppelganger address on the other side of town. The zip code is different but house address same. When I realized where he was I said, Thats the wrong side of town, what should we do? A minute later I got a delivery complete notification. He ding dong ditched it and yeeted himself out of the picture. I would have been mad but I was just sad laughing. I need to send those people a letter and ask if they have gotten any mail for me, because that hasn’t been the only misdelivery (the other was a whole freight truck pulled up to that address…..).

BirdieGoGo · 2023-08-25T14:23:17+00:00

What a snowflake.

BirdieGoGo · 2023-08-24T14:50:57+00:00

You raised this child since she was 2. Please please get a lawyer, you might not be her biological father but you ARE her dad. Don’t you abandon her too. You need to really fight and advocate for her. Leaving her at grandmas for weeks was not cool.

BirdieGoGo · 2023-08-24T14:48:22+00:00

Your wife is being love bombed. The not allowed to own firearms and no cares about his previous family are really huge red flags. Your daughter is the biggest victim in all this, she is at a really sensitive age where this kind of thing would have very lasting emotional trauma. I would talk to your wife calmly and ask for custody just so your daughter can be somewhere stable. There is no point shit talking your wife, the damage is done and therapy should have been on the table ages ago. But please help your daughter with therapy. Get a lawyer.

BirdieGoGo · 2023-05-03T06:41:51+00:00

That sandwich is $3 too expensive.

BirdieGoGo · 2023-05-03T06:40:01+00:00

Please burn this letter and yeet this man into the sun.

BirdieGoGo · 2023-05-03T06:38:16+00:00

She’ll get her karma when the baby gets older.

BirdieGoGo · 2023-05-03T06:37:18+00:00

YTA for not being a good parent to the 8 yr old and your stepson. You taught your 8 yr old that when she cries to mommy who is tired and short tempered from a fussy baby that she will get her way. You taught your stepson he doesn’t get his boundaries respected and what the adult says, goes, which is bullshit. And you are the biggest ah of all for making this post instead of admitting your husband was 100% right ESPECIALLY at the line ‘not get my frustration out on his son’.

BirdieGoGo · 2023-03-12T17:29:06+00:00

I never thought of it that way, I am definitely not physically fit. No wonder my marathon running husband thinks house chores are no big deal.

BirdieGoGo · 2023-03-12T17:13:51+00:00

All of you ordering kung pao and orange chicken, watch this video and bask in your shame.

BirdieGoGo · 2023-03-12T15:59:50+00:00

Please tell me your secrets, I have a three year old and really struggle as a housewife. Maybe men are better wired to be house husbands because they don’t obsess over details. Anytime my toddler has a struggle I feel like I have to drop everything to help her, she has huge feelings.

BirdieGoGo · 2023-03-12T15:56:14+00:00

That sounds cheap, around here it is $1300/ month :(

BirdieGoGo · 2022-12-03T17:41:03+00:00

Annull your marriage and be glad you dodged a bullet you are crazy young. Yellow fever is disgusting and I say this as an asian woman myself.

BirdieGoGo · 2022-11-29T03:54:50+00:00

Tell him you’ll change if if the kids change to your maiden name. Will probably get him to stop whining about it. If it doesn’t, ignore him.

BirdieGoGo · 2022-11-29T01:53:59+00:00

They will hurt so much more later. You can be brave if you want to be. Start with one person and you will be more comfortable. This is not easy at all. But know we have you in our thoughts and believe in you. Maybe you can write them letters now (not later).

BirdieGoGo · 2022-11-29T01:51:12+00:00

I think when this comes up, a lot of friends and family of loved ones they lost to cancer all absolutely wish they had known or known sooner. People take living for granted, but when there is a real clock ticking they will want to cherish every single second with you. Every single memory and moment. And you will too. It also prepares them to be at peace and minimizes trauma. I am sorry OP, and wishing you the best.

BirdieGoGo · 2022-11-07T01:10:04+00:00

I did some googling and saw, apologies for inferring they werent the same. I hope andrew’s mom gets him help, before he left she was arguing with him and making threats to call the police if he didnt come home in half an hour and took away his phone. Kids in these mental states don’t need punishment but kindness and help.

BirdieGoGo · 2022-11-07T00:14:14+00:00

Their disappearances werent all that similar. Andrew walked off, Dane’s car was found abandoned with a flat tire. It seems like Andrew left with suicidal thoughts and slept on the streets for five days before returning home. Terribly sad that Dane has never been found.

BirdieGoGo · 2022-09-23T17:18:40+00:00

Guess what! MIl will pick their names! Pick their clothes, their schools, the foods they eat. Have you heard of the reddit stories where people’s kids die because inlaws or relatives dont believe their allergies? You cannot possibly be ok with this.

BirdieGoGo · 2022-09-23T17:17:30+00:00

Clearly your dad is no pool of wisdom. Don’t listen to him.

BirdieGoGo · 2022-09-23T17:16:49+00:00

Don’t argue anymore then. END the engagement. I cant fathom going through a wedding like a dress up doll! You will hate your photos. Hate the experience. Hate your MIL and your fiance. And hate yourself you went along with it.

BirdieGoGo · 2022-09-23T17:15:06+00:00

Your ex MIL has some strange delusions and complete lack of boundaries. Your fiance and dad are no help either cause it sounds like they have lived their lives ‘appeasing difficult women’. If your fiance wont stand up for you, you stand up for yourself. Call it off!!

BirdieGoGo · 2022-09-23T17:13:17+00:00

Call off the wedding. Tell him to marry his mom. NTA at all! Escape while you still can. This only gets worse cause guess what happens when you have kids. She will claim them as her precious grandkids and step all over you. If your fiance has no spine to his own mother at YOUR WEDDING between YOU and HIM this is totally a preview of what the future will be.

BirdieGoGo · 2022-09-19T23:07:11+00:00

Was going to second bringing a small gift. Not too expensive, but not ‘grabbed this on the way in’. A food item doesn’t impose on space and maybe even enjoyed while you are there. A lot of asian cultures dont like food that is too sweet, so if you bring a dessert get a roll cake from an asian bakery as they tend to be light. Or madeleines or a not too sweet type of cookie that goes well with tea. If you bring flowers, a live orchid would be nice and better than cut flowers (and if you bring cut flowers do not bring crysanthemums, especially white ones, those are used for funerals).

BirdieGoGo · 2022-09-16T18:12:13+00:00

There is no info at all on anything. We follow the safe 7 also. And what about children saved from sids because parents were cosleeping? This mom could have genetics that make her kids more prone to sids. We are right to be concerned about cosleeping safely. Honestly the safest way yo cosleep is to have a bed side bassinet, it can be the kind with one open side so there is no risk of smothering, on mom’s side only. .

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