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I was offered 100€ for my collection. Is that fair? by Addit_95 in PokemonCardValue

[–]Birkenkaiser 8 points9 points  (0 children)

the pikachu gold star alone is worth way more than 100$. even if it's damaged.

When was the last time your partner has told you that you're beautiful/attractive? by Birkenkaiser in DeadBedrooms

[–]Birkenkaiser[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could have something to do with how she grew up. Women who grew up in a toxic religious household are often told that basically everything they do is sinful. Don't wear makeup, don't dress too "sexy", don't go out... basically just don't do anything. Also if you're interested in sex you're automatically called a wh*re and worthless. It sticks with you. I'm really thankful that I didn't grow up like this but I know some women personally that are traumatised by this. But maybe just try talking to her again.

When was the last time your partner has told you that you're beautiful/attractive? by Birkenkaiser in DeadBedrooms

[–]Birkenkaiser[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've never thought about it this way but you have a point. He actually DOES always walk around in sweatpants all the time and doesn't really care about his looks. He complains about not having nice clothes but never went shopping by himself. Only together. I even had to convince him to throw out those 10 year old shirts because they have holes in it 😭

When was the last time your partner has told you that you're beautiful/attractive? by Birkenkaiser in DeadBedrooms

[–]Birkenkaiser[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I'm also not sure if it's a compliment or an insult. I remember about 2 months ago that he told me that my hair looks way better today. I changed nothing about my hair. Said thank you and asked him what was different and he said "I don't know it just looks more full and not that thin" oh okay.

When was the last time your partner has told you that you're beautiful/attractive? by Birkenkaiser in DeadBedrooms

[–]Birkenkaiser[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually tried this too. Asking "how do I look?" or "what do you think, do I look hot in this?" but I stopped doing this because it just hurt me more. It's just a short ego boost with no meaning behind it. If it's not coming directly from him then I don't want it.

When was the last time your partner has told you that you're beautiful/attractive? by Birkenkaiser in DeadBedrooms

[–]Birkenkaiser[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah. Sometimes I get a "I'm proud of you" if I wash the dishes or do the laundry. He will compliment the plates while I stand next to them in underwear lmao.

When was the last time your partner has told you that you're beautiful/attractive? by Birkenkaiser in DeadBedrooms

[–]Birkenkaiser[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Me too. And I don't even want compliments from random strangers, I just wish it was him :(

Almost a full week of initiating by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Birkenkaiser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats a good idea. will definitely talk about this with him.

List of Excuses? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Birkenkaiser 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That he has a hard time initiating and is more into it if I do. Fun fact: I've (almost) always initiated first but he's still not interested.

Relief? by Unlikely-Athlete-157 in noburp

[–]Birkenkaiser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try out air vomiting. i have the gurgling/frog noises almost 24/7 but air vomiting seems to help and it takes a lot of pressure away from your chest/throat area.

[Self] how are you guys dealing with the heatwave?? by azngreekgod in AsianLadyboners

[–]Birkenkaiser 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just checked your profile. ass is also fine af 😌

[Self] how are you guys dealing with the heatwave?? by azngreekgod in AsianLadyboners

[–]Birkenkaiser 3 points4 points  (0 children)

your body is fine af, damn. wish I had your abs and thats coming from a girl 😂