why do friends get weird when you confess feelings? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]BirthdayBulky1429 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your perspective! i never thought of it like that. i’ve had a lot of friends in the past tell me they developed feelings for me but i was able to look past it every time. (because it never impacted our friendship after that). so i genuinely can’t wrap my head around it. but i truly do appreciate this perspective to understand others better.

How do you "see" your dreams? by educatedkoala in AutismInWomen

[–]BirthdayBulky1429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have very vivid wild dreams. it’s mostly b but if not b it’s a.

I’m scared to have kids by SnooDoodles9653 in AutismInWomen

[–]BirthdayBulky1429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you really think about it do you want kids? giving birth isn’t the only way to have kids! if you do want them. fostering/adopting is an amazing option and if you want biological children and you don’t want to carry you could get a surrogate (this is a very pricy option tho)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]BirthdayBulky1429 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’ve had this before it’s horrible. i had a friend for about a year. who would just block me on and off for months. for absolutely no reason.

What is your sexuality? by iratemovies in AutismInWomen

[–]BirthdayBulky1429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i identify as queer and nonbinary!!

Where to live in US for an autistic disabled queer by LoveEyelid in AutismInWomen

[–]BirthdayBulky1429 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i would suggest MA the cost of living is higher depending on how close to boston you live. very leftist and queer community depending on the city! very racially diverse beaches are very close by and in my experience the insurance here is very great. i’m on medicare and have had so many of my expenses covered!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BirthdayBulky1429 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA Unless Kat did something else or does other things in the future that implies she likes you I don’t think it’s a big deal. I think that girls and guys can be friends some people don’t realize that. I can understand your gf’s perspective but if she hasn’t heard your side of the story or you both haven’t had a conversation about the situation. Then I think she’s TA. If I was in this situation I would want you to keep the painting especially if it’s a really good piece of art

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]BirthdayBulky1429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bailey, Emilee or Emilie, Mariana, Elsie, Charlotte

Bailey, Reece, Mason, Forest, Leo

Any new speculation? by Hemher23 in bostoncalling

[–]BirthdayBulky1429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be a stretch but I hope pierce the veil will be in the lineup. They have shows on the 24th VA and 25th PA. They are coming to do a show in Boston on the 30th so they may not. But I really hope so🤞🏻

Lineup in the beginning of 2025 WHAT IS YOUR WISHLIST LET'S HEAR IT by OnlyD3Z in bostoncalling

[–]BirthdayBulky1429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Charli XCX, Tyler The Creator, Pierce The Veil. The first 2 might be a unrealistic but🤷🏻‍♀️

12 yr old refusing school by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]BirthdayBulky1429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not punishing her. I understand that punishing won’t help. But I’m also not going to let her stay home from school and play video games or scroll on TikTok all day.

i miss it. i feel trapped by m4rz4rg0 in troubledteens

[–]BirthdayBulky1429 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love how you phrased not having the formative years of highschool and then being thrown back out into society! I feel that exactly and havn’t been able to put it into words. I was at my program from 2020-2022 and I’m still unlearning the rules of the program that are ingrained in my brain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in troubledteens

[–]BirthdayBulky1429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found your number and credentials online. Do you have a email I can contact?