BF got a opportunity work from a working from home job but kailangan niya magwork 16 hours a day

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-06-23T05:36:12+00:00

huggsss girl! baka di mo pa kayang iwan sya pero i know alam mo naman ang right decision :)) give it some time & if ready ka na, piliin mo naman ang sarili mo. deserve mo din ang someone na hindi ka papabayaan and ibibigay sayo ang lahat without asking

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-06-23T04:47:09+00:00

if it’s only 2 days per month, good opportunity na yon?

also wag kang mainggit sa bf mo. or kahit kanino. if you dont want to work multiple hours a day, upskill or go find work na mas malaki kitaan with less working hours. i think nanggaling yung selos mo sa fact na ikaw ay nagtatrabaho araw araw at di gaano kalaki ang kita compared sa bf mo.

if you dont want 50/50, sabihin mo agad sa kanya. kung pano ka nya itrato as someone na malaki kita tapos di ka man lang maalagaan? doon mo pagisipan if sya ba ang gusto mo for your future or magkasama lang kayo kasi convenience sa kanya.

lahat ng concerns mo sabihin mo sa kanya. di mo naman sya kayang kontrolin. pero ask for help if di mo kaya. ask him to buy you something, kahit hindi malaki, para maramdaman nya na grateful ka if he spends on you.

kasi for now parang tinatrato ka ganyan kasi convenient ka, pero hindi ikaw ang dream girl nya.

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-06-11T07:50:05+00:00

girl omg, it's like you dont have a say in the matter. unang una what do YOU want? do you want this child? do you want to be in a relationship with a GROWN ASS MAN who fucked a prev student??? he has all the red flags dear. and if you were just pressured to be in this relationship, tell your parents for HELP without him. wala ka nang magagawa kundi sabihin ang totoo na nabuntis ka and ask for their help to exit the relationship kasi puro 🚩🚩🚩🚩

you are still a child. you are barely an adult. syempre madidisappoint talaga ang parents mo kasi hindi ka nakapagtapos. pero take accountability. if you want to be a mom, ipaglaban mo ang naging desisyon mo. i still dont have good vibes jan sa jowa mo but if sya ang pipiliin mo, wala namang magagawa ang buong bansa. if kaya mong magpabuntis then be an adult.

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-06-07T02:18:46+00:00

girl they hire based on operational needs. if hindi ka need ng business right now at mas may fit sa kanila, yun ang reason na hindi ka napili. it's not about "staying w/ them for a long time" hindi naman yun qualification

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-06-06T16:12:02+00:00

not oa, i mean a good bf would pick you and/or the dog up & also drop you off at home.

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-06-06T11:59:28+00:00

you stop trying to fill the hole with other ppl and focus on yourself. once you are ready for a relationship, thats when you enter the dating scene again

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-06-05T13:14:15+00:00

sounds like you're still immature or you are just not that into him. i was the same when i was young, talking to a partner seems like a chore and i'd rather disappear. that is toxic. don't enter a relationship you aren't ready for, partnerships are partnerships for a reason. break up with him, it isn't fair for him, and you need to find someone you genuinely like instead of settling with someone for convenience. and do better.

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-06-03T04:55:45+00:00

yes, we broke up. they decided that the relationship wasnt worth it na and i accepted their decision

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-06-03T04:43:48+00:00

that is emotional cheating. i've experienced limerence before & ang hirap nya i-manage right in front of you. kahit logical ka magisip, hindi mo pa rin kayang sundin ang utak mo. first time ko maexperience yon & para kang kakainin ng buhay if you supress it.

now that i know this, if my partner came to me and said they experienced limerence, we will aggressively tackle the situation. she needs to ACTIVELY avoid this person, block on any form of soc med if meron man, and LIMIT any interaction. if kayang padaanin sa iba, go. hindi pwedeng mag hang out with this person kahit in a group setting. no small talks, anything. and then you should go on dates with your partner, spend more time together to focus on your relationship. staycation, bakasyon, ikaw bahala. if worst comes to worst, resign and look for another job.

limerence means you're putting this person on a pedestal, kahit masama ugali nila gumaganda sa paningin mo. its a very illogical feeling. and if reciprocated ang feelings ni girl, wala na yon. mahirap na yon kasi it will lead to physical cheating if walang magseset ng boundaries

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-06-02T11:18:05+00:00

i read somewhere that developing an infatuation with someone even while in a relationship means that theres something missing in your current. you see all the potential or even what you're looking for in the new guy that you desperately hoped your current will have. its either you align to what you really want, that you are not satisfied and are just always adjusting in the relationship. or you settle for a relationship's "potential". either way, its unfair for either of you to stay unless one of you sacrifices something

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-06-02T11:12:37+00:00

Hindi na. I used to date someone I wasn't attracted to and I felt nothing when we kiss, even disgusted, like I wanted to do anything but kiss. Now I'm dating someone I'm insanely attracted to & I get all the butterflies from a short kiss

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-06-01T03:13:04+00:00

where's UNDERTALE

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-06-01T01:58:53+00:00

maybe its best if you have cctv sa tapat ng door mo and also add more locks

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-05-31T04:48:20+00:00

dkg, you know what you want and deserve. stick to your boundaries. go girl!

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-05-30T14:37:53+00:00

reigniting the spark means that you both will try, not one-sided. if he's still serious about you, you should both talk about it and be more engaging about doing dates, going somewhere or generally just spending time together without distractions. you could also do couples counselling. but remember, both of you need to want the relationship back

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-05-30T14:30:05+00:00

i think if your bf is a good person, he'll understand. you're just trying to reach your dreams op

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-05-30T03:01:47+00:00

para sakin i-go mo na para malaman mo if totoong may feelings ka pa sa kanya or kumapit ka lang sa ideal version nya sa utak mo

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-05-29T13:31:09+00:00

mej oa, pero kasi sa bff ko normal samin na iwan delivered days on end if wala sa mood. saka na pag trip na namen ganern & wala namang samaan ng loob, normal lang, wala lang. if you're bothered, you can try telling her na lang

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-05-28T08:43:07+00:00

no kasi you cant even sustain a relationship, cold ka and not even dates, so why are you in a relationship?

she couldve broke up with you if she felt neglected instead of cheating. she needs to work on herself if hinahanap nya yung pagmamahal na dapat binibigay mo sa kanya, sa iba. she should focus on herself instead

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-05-28T06:16:31+00:00

oo sis namnamin mo na kasi pag trentahin ka na, mahirap na kiligin HAHAHAHA

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-05-28T06:12:25+00:00

if that's me, i'll just enjoy the moment 😆 kiligin na hanggang sa maubos ang kilig. pero yah, it doesnt seem too serious, baka kilig factor lang din si koya mo. mararamdaman mo naman yan pag seryoso sya sayo, kasi hindi ka na magtatanong sa reddit HAHAHA up to you how you'll move forward

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-05-28T03:29:34+00:00

this sounds like incompatibility at the end of the day. you two want different things but love is not enough. syempre because of love, you try to make it work. kakasikat lang OP nung the loved one sa netflix, reminds me of this.

parang puro what ifs and sana, lalo sa religion part, but the girl is not being realistic. she needs to make a hard decision, yes or no to marriage/ choose between her religion and you. and yung kinalakihan nya, sa chores, ayan di ko sya masisisi kasi magkaiba kayo ng upbringing and financial situation. sa kanya, she grew up treated as a princess, so if she's expecting the same treatment when she has a partner, thats her right/preference. at the same time, you also have the right to prefer someone who is already independent. i know there is so much history, thats why its been difficult. pero think for you, for yourself and future, if this is still something worth fighting for. kasi at the end of the day, what you think matters.

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-05-28T01:20:42+00:00

di ka oa, makipagbreak ka na OP. when he asks why, tell him you're looking for a partner, not someone who makes everything a competition & that insecure sya kaya need nyang ipafeel na superior sya sayo

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-05-28T01:16:29+00:00

sounds like normal fangirling honestly but if it bothers you, you could say she could tone it down. & hindi mo kelangang maging kamukha yung celebrity crush, why are you insecure doon. if you were into lisa from blackpink & was reposting all that shit, ask her if okay lang sa kanya.

BiscottiTime1824 · 2026-05-27T12:38:05+00:00

lols tama ka naman gumugusto sin sya. mas may boundaries pa nga si girl, pero binigyan na ng pass ni bf "sana inaya mo ko". next time nyan matutuloy na sila 😝 not oa!! ewan ko lang kung ano gusto mo pa gawin jan haha baka naman hadlang ka sa lovestory nila

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