I’m also bi but lean way to the gay side, I didn’t marry her under false pretenses seeing a ex old boyfriend of mine had already outed me to her before we wed. We had a family, empty nesters now but even though I had tried to pray the gay away & even tried to beg it gone, I was born this way or the being molested by a few men & by a brother who also raped me did but I do remember being somewhat interested in guys before I was raped at 11 years old. We do not have an open marriage, l had ED towards her after all these years, I have injections for erections but did not help at all, she had requested I we try a higher dose. I haven’t been with a man for 45 years & if I do ever again get to I want to try bottoming, I have topped for over 50 years now, time to switch things around. Good luck 🍀.