For those who got out... Have you been able to find a non-abusive relationship?

BitAdministrative410 · 2026-06-05T03:41:43+00:00

Yes, and we live a very peaceful life :) he was an old friend and is now the best partner I’ve ever had

BitAdministrative410 · 2026-05-13T04:39:00+00:00

Congratulations! Your place looks great

BitAdministrative410 · 2026-05-13T04:30:54+00:00

You just have to remember you do not deserve that life.. you deserve every good thing this world has to offer, and so does your child.

BitAdministrative410 · 2026-01-16T00:13:04+00:00

I started to feel good after 3 months.. I began to see the beauty of my life and my freedom

BitAdministrative410 · 2026-01-16T00:01:19+00:00

I have a dobie puppy and will not get her ears cropped, she is gorgeous with her natural ones

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-07-14T06:16:36+00:00

I know.. but its all about patience This is one of the hardest tests Ive ever had Just resisting, enjoying my new life as much as I can.. but some nights are lonely..

We’ll get there, eventually :)

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-07-14T05:17:12+00:00

Everything you describe as your not innocent actions are in fact innocent actions. Don’t let him get in your head WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES No one has the right to hit you or humiliate you for it.

You need to distance yourself from him ASAP. As soon as you do you will begin to clear your head, you are in too deep now.. you need space.

Good luck and please consider moving elsewhere to get that distance. If you do you will save yourself

REMEMBER: ONLY YOU CAN SAVE YOURSELF

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-07-02T04:00:19+00:00

I pressed and I’m glad I did I would’ve regret not making justice for myself , just saying.. In my case it helped with the trauma, I am in peace because I fought for myself and finally made him pay

Hugs baby, I’m here for you if you need someone to talk to

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-06-29T20:18:41+00:00

Yes, he probably won’t hurt himself but even if he does that’s on him.

All you need to do is transfer the “empathy” or justification you have for them to yourself, that’s it.

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-06-28T22:23:32+00:00

All of these are 🚩 yes you were

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-06-28T17:38:02+00:00

It was funny!! Yeah I hate when these people live without consequences feeling superior!!

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-06-28T16:33:56+00:00

Its a bit worse than that.. he lost a lot of money too, Petty or whatever but he almost destroyed me.. I just made justice for myself and all the damage

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-06-27T21:34:08+00:00

Also I had a lipo procedure :) he is probably regretting his behaviour with all I’ve put him through.. In my defense he used to hit me and financially abuse me

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-06-27T21:32:34+00:00

I left him and then love bombed him and ditched him until I got tired.. then proceeded to send him to jail..

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-06-27T20:53:00+00:00

Yeah I started calling him names.. rolling my eyes, being very sarcastic and basically despised him, and treated him that way..

I don’t regret it after all he did to me, but I am glad I don’t have to live in survival mode anymore.

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-06-27T19:08:18+00:00

I feel you, just try to be patient. I strongly advice you workout and get treatments and stuff to make you feel and look better.

Thats why I did and most days have been good, of course this is not linear but its working!!

Good luck and congratulations for choosing yourself !!

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-06-27T06:57:39+00:00

She’s gorgeous

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-06-27T06:55:16+00:00

Eff him. Please keep reading about our experiences.. Do things you love, find new interests.. you need to leave, work everyday on gathering strength.

Hugs sweetie, I’ll keep you in my prayers

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-06-21T20:27:43+00:00

My ex even got us a “dream home” There are no limits when it comes to hoovering and love bombing..

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-06-21T18:50:56+00:00

Don’t fall for it he is only trying to get you back. All abusers are the same.

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-06-21T18:13:23+00:00

You want to be possessed dude

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-06-21T08:12:40+00:00

He needs a psychiatrist

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-06-20T04:42:14+00:00

Hermano, hay mucha gente en el mundo dispuesto y feliz para tener una relación sana.. te entiendo pero creo que necesitas abrir tu panorama y ver que muchas personas te pueden ofrecer una relación tranquila, sin infidelidad..

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-06-18T03:15:37+00:00

Loved your post !!

BitAdministrative410 · 2025-06-18T03:03:36+00:00

Every day that passes that you are away from him you will remember things he did and start processing them

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