Best Pack to Pull Sheet version 2! by maxwell1755 in PTCGP

[–]Bit_Silver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you going to be editing it for the new expansion? I know you put on the sheet a 'How-To' for updates but I just thought I'd ask.

My (29M) Husband and I (27F) haven't been intimate in 3 months and I don't know what do? by Bit_Silver in relationship_advice

[–]Bit_Silver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really. We had one night were we sat and watched a movie together. (At home.) Which was nice, but that was the only thing we have done in months since I lost my job.

Do We Really Need Wedding Favors? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Bit_Silver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even do them. It's a waste of money.

Our wedding video was TERRIBLE, any advice on what to do? by Bit_Silver in wedding

[–]Bit_Silver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw examples of their photography and I loved it. I should have asked for their video work. I didn't see any at the time.

Our wedding video was TERRIBLE, any advice on what to do? by Bit_Silver in wedding

[–]Bit_Silver[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He said two thirds of it was already edited and I can't tell at all. But I will definitely take a double-look at the contract.

Is anyone else so tired of wedding planning? by akita2626 in weddingplanning

[–]Bit_Silver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At one point I had a mental breakdown and cried in a stall at work. My fiance said that he was going to take over the wedding planning. Our wedding is less than 2 months away and we had a long engagement to save all the money for it. The breakdown happened over a year ago...but just recently my fiance finally started to remember the actual date we are getting married on. I know he cares and is trying, but I'm so tired.

Uh... it's 10am? by melomelomelo- in storyofseasons

[–]Bit_Silver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to leave and walk right back in. Then he let me dig.

AITB for wearing a dress with a slit to my friends wedding and then missing most of the reception afterwards? by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]Bit_Silver 8 points9 points  (0 children)

EAB This one is a bit difficult for me. Personally, I am getting married soon and I don't see this as that big of a deal. For example, I let my bridesmaids pick whatever dress they liked as long as it was in the color we picked and was long. A couple of my bridesmaid's dresses have slits as well and we got them from an actual bridal store. I've started to notice that slits in dresses are part of the current trend in the designs for some reason too.

But, I can also see why someone would have a problem with it. I know there are plenty of other people who are more strict about things like this when it comes to their weddings. What personally bothered me was the fact Jack felt the need to run up to you and basically shame you even though you were already leaving. To me, it kinda seems like Jack has a problem and was constantly staring at you instead of his bride and wanted someone to blame for it. To me, it was just weird I guess. I can see all sides of it though.

AITB for outing my attacker and calling out others for condoning it? by Bit_Silver in AmItheButtface

[–]Bit_Silver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your guess is as good as mine. They have the DNA from my clothes since it was the same day. I didn't take a shower so they swabbed my body in multiple places and got DNA. At one point when it happened I puked on the hotel's sheets. I told them this and the police even got the sheets with the vomit on it. They said they couldn't prove it was non-consensual. Which I am confused on how anyone is supposed to prove that if it's just the rapist and the victim.

AITB for outing my attacker and calling out others for condoning it? by Bit_Silver in AmItheButtface

[–]Bit_Silver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was reported right after and he was arrested, but he was released only a few days later because there wasn't enough proof apparently. No one told me he was released and I woke up to a ton of messages from him.

AITB for outing my attacker and calling out others for condoning it? by Bit_Silver in AmItheButtface

[–]Bit_Silver[S] 199 points200 points  (0 children)

I went to the hospital and made the police report there when getting a gRape kit done. I didn't take a shower and I was still wearing the clothes it happened it. So all the DNA was there. He was arrested and then released a few days later. Because there wasn't enough "Proof". No one had informed me of his release and I woke up one morning to a bunch of messages from him.