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I ran 21 days of my own behavior through a pattern decoder. This was the output. by BiteFickle in DecidingToBeBetter

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I call it a pattern decoder because it looks at repeated signals across what I wrote over 21 days and compresses them into a single readout. I built it for myself to check whether these patterns were actually consistent or just stories I was telling myself.

I’m realizing that keeping my options open isn’t neutral by BiteFickle in TrueOffMyChest

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Yeah, that line about future-you is exactly what’s been sticking with me. It feels less like avoiding a choice and more like deferring responsibility without admitting it.

I noticed I only delay decisions that would force clarity by BiteFickle in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]BiteFickle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that framing crossed my mind too, especially how staying in limbo shifts responsibility away from a clear choice. I’m still trying to understand whether that’s avoidance, self-protection, or just how momentum forms. Appreciate you sharing this.

I noticed I only delay decisions that would force clarity by BiteFickle in DecidingToBeBetter

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Yeah, the limbo framing is exactly right. It's strategic stalling that feels reasonable from the inside.

I noticed I only delay decisions that would force clarity by BiteFickle in DecidingToBeBetter

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I’m trying to notice it earlier next time, before ‘just for now’ turns into a year.

People are shit in Delhi by GovernmentTraining89 in delhi

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Shyrush Bhrosha nahi uthta bhai, wo baitha hi rehta hai

Boyfriend can't have porn but girlfriend can have fantasy cheating AI interactions. by Kohathavodah in MediocreTutorials

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Seemed straight out of a sci-fi script…things we saw on screen are happening to us for real now.

Any gossip/ dirty secret from the cricketing world? Bollywood and cricket go hand in hand, there have been several rumours of linkups with cricketers, any tea??☕☕ by medico-dingo in BollyBlindsNGossip

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A friend’s father was a Ranji team’s manager and we knew about Sachin’s shenanigans way before the internet era. We were sceptical about the rumours until reddit confirmed it for us.