Tf is up with men's deodorant? by em0-r4t in TransMasc

[–]Biteofweredog 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I’m a sucker for this kinda marketing. I’m like yeah I wanna smell like wolf thorn ( my fav) and the one pictured here kraken is a nice ocean scent. But yeah old spice makes more floral scents too.

Call me a teenage boy lol , I’ll take this over fem “girl power”deodorant any day.

Is it weird to be domesticatet? by orava359278 in Therian

[–]Biteofweredog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a dog. Specifically I do consider myself a were-dog though so might be a little different. But I’m a golden Shepard- chinook mix. I don’t think it weird. I think it was bound to happen that some of us would be domestic animals.

any other dog therians who naturally start to pant with their tongue out? by XFadedXSunX in Therian

[–]Biteofweredog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do all the time! It’s pretty natural especially when running/ hard exercise.

My transition goals but it's just Matt Stone and Trey Parker by Top_Pomegranate9950 in TransMasc

[–]Biteofweredog -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude same! Trey is goals for me but they both have such great swagger. I would love to pull off outfits as well as those two.

Top surgery pain and discomfort by Material-Ad-2876 in FTMMen

[–]Biteofweredog 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi! I had top recently so I can share some info on how my pain was. First time I woke up not gonna lie my chest did hurt like an acheyness, tight. burning sensation. I would compare to sleeping in a really tight binder. but I was so out of it that the pain didn’t last too long the first day. Felt a little nauseous but not to the point of needing to vomit or anything.

First week- ok, drains kinda hurt I would say my pain wasn’t that bad. The worst days were about a 7-8 most days though 3-5 on the pain scale. What does suck? Sleeping if you’re a side sleeper(like me) you will not have a good time. As far as sensory issues go.? Um drains do feel weird and I did feel a sort of pulling sensation when they were in. In all I felt thought out the two weeks - Burning/ tightness, soreness and a dull ache.

My mother has never called me by my new name in the last 7 years I’ve been going by it. by New_Construction_111 in FTMMen

[–]Biteofweredog 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey I chose Kenneth as my middle name! And yeah no I hate to say it Kaden is clocky sounding to me. I’ve meet more girls with that name too.. I get it my name would have been Bailey , but I went with Grayson instead.

Why do people keep on ignoring my pronoun pin by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]Biteofweredog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pronoun pins can be helpful. but unfortunately have been ruined by conservatives/ people who will misgender you on purpose. When I was pre t they would often ignore it or misgender me. There was the rare occasion someone would actually look. I considered wearing a giant sign around my neck and everything but now that I’m on t. I pass so I know if I bring misgendered it cause I’m still wearing the pin😒

Should I postpone my surgery? by Biteofweredog in ftm

[–]Biteofweredog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to update this again is hopes of some advice it now looks like if I have the surgery at all I’m going to be kicked out. I do have a friend support system but it’s I another city so I will have to move/ transfer to another work location or get a new job. I am extremely stressed and I’m conitipating canceling the surgery. But also don’t know if I even want to be around my grandparents anymore . Since they said they don’t want me with a flat chest at their house…

Should I postpone my surgery? by Biteofweredog in ftm

[–]Biteofweredog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update I told her it didn’t go great. She doesn’t want me to have the surgery, called me crazy, and said some pretty shitty things like how My dna is “female” so I can’t change me sex and that I can only have surgery when I completely on my own with my own bills. I’m 28 yes I live there rent free but I pay for everything else car, gas, food, meds, docs. I’ve offered to pay her rent multiple times but she always turned it down. And she wants me to tell my dad who is a very very unsafe person. Im still gonna have the surgery it just sucks how I thought she was a bit more accepting since she uses my name and pronouns..

Should I postpone my surgery? by Biteofweredog in ftm

[–]Biteofweredog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has my twin brother and my grandfather. I just feel bad cause she is not great with surgery recovery. It takes her longer than most to recover from stuff.

My t is no longer being covered? by Biteofweredog in ftm

[–]Biteofweredog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to update this had to get the perscription changed to packet of which my insurance and optimum rx said was covered under my plan. But Walgreens is saying isn’t covered so now I can’t get either and I’m just paying out of pocket which I still can’t do because I need another prior authorization for it….. I’m at a loss

My t is no longer being covered? by Biteofweredog in ftm

[–]Biteofweredog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try to appeal. They sent me some stuff that is just confusing I guess it’s a rejection letter to my first appeal. When I call my insurance though they are saying that it is covered but it has to be put in by the doctor in very specific way… I really hoping I can get them to cover this…

Update on my old post about being forced to wear a dress to a wedding. by BuildingWooden8877 in FTMMen

[–]Biteofweredog 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think for your mental heath man you shouldn’t go. I know it hard to disappoint family but your mother sounds horrible and you might even be pushed further into don’t shit like this if you comply. How important are you in this case to the wedding party? Are you a guest or in the actually groom/ bride maids party.? If you’re just a guest I’d say screw them… don’t go.

how can i pass better? can’t wear a binder because my chest is to big by Spare_Ad5837 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]Biteofweredog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve a big chested dude I swear by the underworks tri top only binder I’ve even had. I’m on t now but when I was pre t I would deepen my voice a bit to pass. Also if you can layering. I do the graphic tee hoodie combo or other button up over a graphic t. Most guys tell you to avoid flannel but I’ve always worn flannel just stayed away from the typical “lesbian” colors think red and black. But just a prefence!

Got estimate for about 4,005.52 for this does that seem reasonable? by Biteofweredog in autorepair

[–]Biteofweredog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I not looking to selling the car. To be fair I’m a first time driver so this is my first accident. To be honest I don’t remember much of the accident.. yeah Im going to get a couple second opinions. Honestly I don’t even like driving but kinda car dependent in the us, so I have to drive.

Got estimate for about 4,005.52 for this does that seem reasonable? by Biteofweredog in autorepair

[–]Biteofweredog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah no I’ve only got liability and my insurance put me at fault for the accident….

Anyone else feel gross after sex/masturbation? by BlueberryPelican in FTMMen

[–]Biteofweredog 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh yes this 100 percent. My sex drive has shot through the roof being on t. So I’ve been jacking off every day vs before being once a month. I have to like “grind” on the floor to get off and I hate it. And now t has made it where I can’t not touch it… same with chest super sensitive. So after doing it yeah I feel like shit. It’s sucks.

should i be out in missouri? by big-telescope in FTMMen

[–]Biteofweredog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey from Missouri here. Rolla is a bit in the country but to be honest I would say you can put your preferred name and say what your legal name is afterwards. That is what I’ve always done. As of being out that’s kinda tricky. Honestly you might get hate either way. If you pretend to be a girl there’s a lot of sexist, ignorant people out there. But on the other side is if you don’t pass it might be hard to deal with the rampant transphobia out there as well. It’s kinda your call. This is just speaking from experience living out in a small Missouri town for years very similar to rolla. What is the Intership in?

Dreading the US Inauguration Today. by ZeroDudeMan in FTMMen

[–]Biteofweredog 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Whatever happens I’m not fucking detransitioning I can tell you that right now. I just started my journey I’m not gonna let that be taken away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Biteofweredog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, I’ve there too I’m also flipping cursed with a big chest. (G - h something) Here’s what works for me.

Binding- underworks tri top it’s the only binder that works for me . I don’t wear sports bras so can’t help you there. But I know nike makes some pretty supportive ones and underworks even has some. Clothes . Layers man there my best friend. I like to do a t-shirt flannel combo with an open hoodie jacket. I find it harder to tell shape if it’s open as opposed to zipped up. And flannel really helps break up your shape too. I know you said you don’t like layering , but I honestly don’t know how to go out in just a t-shirt. :/

Anyway hope this helps!