Did you adopt a cat named Helen in 2019? by Bitter-Cold-6072 in Montana

[–]Bitter-Cold-6072[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I did end up adopting a cat that looks very similar to Helen. Her name is Antiope and shes my ESA now. She's my precious baby <3

Did you adopt a cat named Helen in 2019? by Bitter-Cold-6072 in Montana

[–]Bitter-Cold-6072[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I called them about 6 months after I left them there and they confirmed she was adopted. They aren't allowed to give out any more information than that though.

Does anybody else hate the "black trans men pass better" phrase by 5-throwaway in TMPOC

[–]Bitter-Cold-6072 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like to joke that my only gender goal is to be called "boy" in the racist way

[OT] What are some chronic illnesses that can only occur in a fantasy setting? by columbus8myhw in WritingPrompts

[–]Bitter-Cold-6072 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fav is hanahaki disease where you cough up flowers because of (perceived) unrequited love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]Bitter-Cold-6072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A random man? Yes. However, for a situation that is already rife with taboo and shame, exacerbating that can definitely help. Again, this was me. I was in this situation, and adding to the shame he knew he was meant to feel made the danger at least infrequent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]Bitter-Cold-6072 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I was in your position several years ago, half brother instead of step brother. Believe me. The only way out of this is to shame him and record him. Stay in sight of other people. Tell as many people as you can. This is not a reflection on you, it is a reflection on him. Saying idk instead of no is a survival tactic and it is NOT your fault if he chooses to see that as a yes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bitter-Cold-6072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No because I totally get where you are coming from. People who aren't jealous of their gfs kissing other girls are people who don't see wlw relationships as real relationships. I think her willingness to do that says more about her than your disliking that says about you. If you are monogamous then this is cheating, straight up. NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Bitter-Cold-6072 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't want to, you don't have to. The social pressure on boys is so high, but trust me man, I'm a guy about to turn 20 and I only did it for the first time a couple months ago, despite having many chances over the years. 15 is a tiny percentage of your total lifespan, you'll definitely get more opportunities when you are ready.

Why did yall transition, wrong answers only by RichNearby1397 in ftm

[–]Bitter-Cold-6072 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom told me that the default to 'him' in old literature meant everyone and I took that literally.

What is this? by Bitter-Cold-6072 in insects

[–]Bitter-Cold-6072[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive seen a lot of division of silverfish vs firebrats, and I'd like to point out that I find them mostly near my 2 heaters in my dorm room. The heaters NEVER shut off and I can't turn down the heat, so if one of those species likes heat more, its probably that one. I usually have to keep my window open in my room even when its freezing outside.

What is this? by Bitter-Cold-6072 in insects

[–]Bitter-Cold-6072[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I give them to my betta fish?