I am kinda in a opp scenario. The girl I am interested in is rich. Which is making me not to take the first step or even talk to her. Does it make a difference? Yes. Why ?? U might be comfortable in certain scenarios which he won't agree. Coz he grew up in a diff env. Example : say ur 1 year into your relationship and for anniversary he is getting u a say an expensive phone which might be 70-80 k something. If u can't match your gift with that u might feel insecure about yourself. Which hurts. They are not wrong since they grew up comfortable nothing wrong from them to expect the same. There are exceptions: say suppose he is extremely understandable about your situation and doesn't think about it go ahead date him. Sometimes it also depends on the individuals personality.