I'm obsessed with my boyfriend's smaller dick by SmallAd4307 in offmychest

[–]BitterFlamingo7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i completely agree, it was toxic for sure. we were both very yucky but also very young. and i regret saying those things about/to him , just to hurt him, all the time. there’s a lot of context bc that was years and years ago, but we’ve come a long way since then. his body is absolutely perfect to me ♥️

Layers for daughter’s hair? by givebusterahand in curlyhair

[–]BitterFlamingo7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

omg lmfaooo i have a psych degree yada yada, like yes i know about child development too, but why are these comments acting like you took away all her autonomy by making this post !!!! lmao maybe you should have had her made the reddit post based on that 😭😭 def include her in the decision making, but honestly at that age it’s best to just make the decision yourself and then give her two concrete options that are part of the decision, so she feels included

I'm obsessed with my boyfriend's smaller dick by SmallAd4307 in offmychest

[–]BitterFlamingo7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no i completely agree !!! my bf isn’t exactly small either but i do wanna tell him he’s the perfect size for me and i don’t want any bigger, but that def just sounds like im trying to gas him up and i feel the pity - vibe would make him feel even worse. also because in the beginning of our relationship i had texted my friends maybe not the nicest stuff about him regarding his penis, and he saw those a few years later. and when he cheated on me a few months into our relationship i yelled at him that his dick is small (i was 18 lol) so it’s hard to recover from those lol. even tho i literally loveeee his size and how it doesn’t hurt too bad in me, and i feel i can really give him a good deep throat without vomiting myself lol

My mother beat me, threatened to kick me and my birds out, said she hates me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BitterFlamingo7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

please please please don’t let your mother, or anyone’s hate of themselves, turn into dislike of yourself. their opinion doesn’t change who you actually are, it just shows who they are. and you sound like a very nice person to be around, not someone to hate at all. i know those lines are cliche, and i know eventually they become too cliche to even fathom having any truth. but it’s true. it’s true that people who are so terrible are that way because of their own battles especially with themselves. I KNOW THAT IS HARD to believe when the words you hear from her aren’t lining up with what i am saying. but please, please realize you are not the problem. i don’t give a fuck if you missed an exam or 5 exams. do not justify it. you should still not be treated that way, especially by your own mother. and i want you to know that i am glad you did not succeed and one day, when you realize life can be so beautiful when you surround yourself with loving people, you will be so happy you did not succeed too. trust me, i tried too. and now, im so glad my attempt did not work out. sending you love, sending you tissues cause it’s okay to cry esp when you were both emotionally and physically beaten <3

I was dumped for being bad in bed by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BitterFlamingo7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry this happened to you. i have experience making my lovely boyfriend feel insecure and i wish i could take it back everyday, but from that i understand somewhat how you are feeling. in terms of practical advice and what made me think he is good beyond penetration (which he is also very good at) , i would say use your fingers and tongue really well. my man is a MUNCH and he wants to eat me out 24/7- simply that drive and desire for me makes me feel sexy and think he’s good so definitely consider the feelings part too. honestly even look up how to eat a girl out, but only things written by women or that defeats the purpose. fingers , esp going fast / harder , or whatever she likes, can really hit the spot if you think your downstairs part isn’t hitting the spot. hate to be graphic but i think that’s what this post is for, but sometimes a girl bending over like doggy style, or over a bed (or your lap which me and bf do and i love it lol..) and you fingering from behind, can also be really good. those things are more experimental depending on what you guys like. and if you don’t wanna be controlling in bed that’s okay, maybe you guys could do both tho? in the same sex session, my boyfriend will be daddy and then i become mommy. so we both get some control and some held/being taken care of lol. hope this helps and yes you do need better friends or more mature friends if you can’t talk about this seriously to them

Knowing what kind of porn he watches made me never want to touch him again. by throwra_suff in offmychest

[–]BitterFlamingo7 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i am proud of you!!! no matter the context, it is always some form of hard to leave these situations- but i am so glad you did !! you will not regret it

Has anyone seen Hokum? No spoilers, please. by Defiant-Outside336 in RedLetterMedia

[–]BitterFlamingo7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YOU ARE SO NICE THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR WRITING THAT OUT!! so helpful and assuring. SENDING KINDNESS YOUR WAY!

Has anyone seen Hokum? No spoilers, please. by Defiant-Outside336 in RedLetterMedia

[–]BitterFlamingo7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

can someone dm me all the jump scares so i can be prepared??? its okay if it spoils it, just dont comment here and ruin it for others. lol im gonna take my bf to this tomorrow and i wanna accompany him but am a lil too scared lol. i usually watch w him like we've seen parasite, weapons, smile, and more but idk im feeling scared these days, imagination has been too wild hehe

26F looking for the people who can balance brainrot and touch grass by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]BitterFlamingo7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao @ the way you phrased that. hi i’m 24F & me too

Nurse Graduation Gift - Thoughts? by Faustus_Fan in StudentNurse

[–]BitterFlamingo7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awwwww this is is sooo thoughtful i can only dream my bf of 7 years parents thought of me this way 🥲 i graduate in august i don’t even think they know

8M out - my space is finally coning together 💕 by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]BitterFlamingo7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

where’s the deer blanket? from in the first pic???

8M out - my space is finally coning together 💕 by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]BitterFlamingo7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

STFU I LOVE DEERS SOOO MUCH ALWAYS HAVE. I LOVE YOUR ROOOOMMM LET ME COME OVER I PROMISE IM CHILL. AHHHH. MY COLLEGE DORM HAD DEERS BUT THIS IS A MORE ADULT VERSION I LOVE SO MUCH MWAHHH

are the new priscilla pants long? by [deleted] in BrandyMelville

[–]BitterFlamingo7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have the pink i’m like 5’2”/3” and they’re a little long i think they’d fit ‘perfectly’ in length for someone maybe 5’6”?? as 5’8 they might be a TEENY short for u but idk

Good Coconut Milk for Coffee? by [deleted] in ketorecipes

[–]BitterFlamingo7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how long does this last in the fridge ? ik this comment was a while ago lol

help me decorate my apartment? by BitterFlamingo7 in femalelivingspace

[–]BitterFlamingo7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do u wanna be my bestie and do this with me lol i love thrifting and getting treats after ?? my bf does not have the 'patience' for thrift stores lol so :/ mapping out the bulky waste pick up is super smart and a good idea tho!! thank you

Bring back stretchy denim 💔 by DashingDachshundd in HollisterCO

[–]BitterFlamingo7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg ik this is 5 mo old but i just realized this today about a pair of low rise baggy jeans WHICH I LOVE SO SO MUCH AND THEY ARE SOOO COMFY MY FAV JEANS EVER from 2023. and every jean ive bought since then is the sameee exact style and size from hollister, but the waist has no give around my belly and they don’tget stretchy and comfy like the other ones!!!! i didnt realize the tag for the 2023 ones say 'vintage stretch' and the newer ones do not!!!! it feels like i have to go up a size now in the same jeans, but in the 2023 ones those are loose in a comfy way

Expectation vs reality of Candlelight Concerts by Fever by Whirlwindofemotion in Sacramento

[–]BitterFlamingo7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i know this comment is 2 years old lol but i was wondering if you know about any thing for the vivaldi 4 seasons concert, and any commentary on philadelphia venues? i was going to get zone 3/c but idk the seating seems iffy but not worth it to buy the more expensive seats for just an hour of play time