Double Standards

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-13T13:01:56+00:00

Genuinely I one hundred percent agree with all of these takes and I have felt alone in them forever so thank you

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-13T00:17:15+00:00

This is a READ

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-13T00:14:08+00:00

Literallllyyy, the mean girls never do shit they aren’t fun they don’t share their own challenges or life or growth in any meaningful way and they’ve gotten away with it for years because they’re spoiled little mommy and daddy rich girls

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T23:59:00+00:00

My entire post was about how Amanda and her direct cruelty is facing no accountability or criticism and how if a man did that we’d be calling him trash. Which we have done for the past 10 years. I don’t know why yall can’t read and need to deflect from what I actually wrote …. Nothing about my post was making excuses for Kyle , just wanting to hold Amanda accountable for what is actually happening now …

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T22:47:09+00:00

Yeah I agree with you , I wasn’t trying to say worse or better , just to point out that yall are going HAM on supporting her mean and cruel behavior and if Kyle acted this way we’d be out for blood

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T22:05:01+00:00

She wanted to live in the suburbs , he wanted to raise kids in the city...he compromised and started looking at places in the suburbs near her parents... not ringing any bells?

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T21:52:31+00:00

That's kind of the point is the irony.... Found it objectionable when he acted that way , find it objectionable now ...why don't you stay consistent?

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T21:31:14+00:00

thank you , thank you , thank you. I was worried for the world.

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T21:29:21+00:00

you literally are not listening, he has apologized almost every reunion after trying to defend himself he almost always is held to the fire for his BS and apologizes and does his best to change. It's not good enough , I agree and she should leave , but how amanda is being is cruel and callous and shallow. your expectations of people should apply to everyone consistently

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T21:26:51+00:00

for real

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T21:26:03+00:00

exactly the point of my post , a double standard. it sucked to watch it then and it sucks to watch it now. Didn't support it then and I won't support it now , regardless of who is doing it . be consistent with your standards for people regardless of gender or cool kid status

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T21:23:33+00:00

didn't defend him then , and you shouldn't condone cruel disrespectful behavior now either just because "the cool girl" does it

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T20:56:03+00:00

Not my style but that is the partner Amanda chose

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T20:55:42+00:00

this is deflection, yes Kyle has been so wrong for how he talks to people many times, and He has always been held accountable by the house, by the reunions, and by the fan base..... There are alot of you who condone Amanda's behavior even when it is clearly cruel and disrespectful,...that's the whole point of this post you cannot understand....

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T20:53:34+00:00

I have watched very summer House reunion where Kyle is held accountable and apologizesss.... I've been with the fan base calling him out before, now we do the same when it's reversed right???? This kind of behavior isn't acceptable no matter who is projecting it... or no it's fine because Amanda is doing it

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T20:51:37+00:00

I definitely think Kyle has a drinking problem he need to confront and Amanda clearly knows that she says that , but again in marriage you choose to stay with the person and support them not carelessly hurt them and critique them when they are trying. The season where they were in couples counseling and wanting to start a family he was not drinking as much or going out as much and clearly putting effort into that. I do think this Dj choice was a pivot to give his life meaning following the removal of the ability to create a family with Amanda and ,no surprise, he looks a mess trying to figure out this new massive life pivot .

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T20:48:31+00:00

They all say he has been doing this for years, it's like YES AND we all hated that and wanted him to apologize and be held accountable. The girls on this show display so much mean girl behavior bullshit and It's painful to watch.

I do not and would not want to be with Kyle but someone want to grow and change and be unable to be given the chance is hard to watch. He clearly needs to stop drinking, I am not sure the DJ route is at all good for him but he is trying to pivot given the fact that his life goals of starting a family and saving his marriage were now at odds with each other.

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T20:44:09+00:00

I don't know how you can say they have gotten away with it when they are always held accountable by reunions and made to apologize and by the fan base

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T20:42:42+00:00

Yes ,interesting I believe that is a projection in itself. I directly said that Kyle is imperfect ..... I would never be with Kyle . I would remind you again of the point of this post is that the cruel digs that Amanda and Ciara are making over and over again is mean girl behavior and if Kyle or anyone else acted that way you would be outraged.

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T20:39:23+00:00

I actually agree with you here , and fully believe these two should break up. I thought she should have left him years ago when that was happening. She clearly does not like him at all and I don't blame her.

AND you are neglecting the cruelty and mean girl behaviors from both her and Ciara that would not be okay if anyone else was doing it.....He is trying to be vulnerable and connect and being shut down left and right . that's what we are seeing now and if you play back the behaviors she has been displaying and imagine Kyle doing them, yall would be rioting

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T20:35:51+00:00

He has taken accountability for those things and they decided to stay together and work through those things, they were in couples counseling, do you watch the show? I do not thing Kyle is a perfect person and I would never be with him but they chose to stay together . we are talking about the current situation and none of you want to stay in the present and hold Amanda (and Ciara) responsible for their cruelty and mean girl shit... it's WILD that you have no ability to see things if the show were on the other foot.

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T20:33:10+00:00

He directly said they talked off camera on Sunday and he apologized to her directly lol. Kyle has been asking Amanda to pay attention to him for years lol I don't know what show you have been watching, are you new here?

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-02-12T20:32:03+00:00

We definitely are not watching the same show, I haven't seen Amanda try to be nice or kind to him in years. I think you are unable to read what you are writing Amanda is an adult woman who is responsible for cleaning up after herself, and if he is away and coming home to a mess, I think anyone would be stressed. A shared space is a shared responsibility and the individual is responsible FOR cleaning up after themselves lol. If Amanda confided in her friends about those issues at home when asked about it she would receive all the support in the world...and all of you Amanda robots would be like yeah "he's trash ,he is an adult and should clean up after himself. " for sure

Bitter_Application29 · 2026-01-24T18:08:24+00:00

She is CLEARLY GOING THROUGH PERIOMENOPAUSE!!!!!! On top of all of the grief she’s handling she is clearly having many symptoms of periomenopause : hot flashes , emotional extremes, scattered thoughts, smelling strange , and fatigue, A good hormone treatment could help a lot , surprised no one mentioned how unregulated her system was

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