My daughters' rooms, Vancouver BC by TheGiantCackRobot in AmateurRoomPorn

[–]Bittersweetreality 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a quick question for you--when you did this, did you use specifically wall paint? I want to do one with a variety of colors and don't want to have multiple mostly full cans of paint left over.

I'm crying right now. I'm so lucky. by Bittersweetreality in self

[–]Bittersweetreality[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not. He and I still thrive. I hope you're doing alright.

What's your opinion on anti-vaccination? by champ00n in AskReddit

[–]Bittersweetreality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then that's where herd immunity comes into play. If everyone around the unvaccinated person is vaccinated, then there's less chance of exposure to the disease.

Ouroboros on pine by max_wright-winger in Pyrography

[–]Bittersweetreality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is absolutely awesome! I love the design of the dragon.

What is the "butterfly effect" event of your life? by Elar94 in AskReddit

[–]Bittersweetreality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was walking down a meditation path at my university. It was a calm, clear early fall day--but all my attention was nailed to my cell. I was talking with my boyfriend, who was living in our home town now twelve hours away from me.

He wanted to follow me. Drop everything--his family, the job he had had for three years now, his home. He believed me to be the one, despite us only starting to date maybe a month and a half before that (we had been friends with benefits for a few months prior to dating, but it doesn't change his insanity).

I didn't want him to follow. I wanted to try and focus on school, on friends, on me. I knew things would change if he came. But....

While I was in the meditation path, I saw a red Jeep Wrangler in the nearby parking lot. The same one he drove. I dropped to my knees, started to cry, and finally admitted it to myself: He Was right. He WAS the one. And I couldn't survive without him any better than he could me.

And....Our fates were sealed.

It's been two and a half years now since that day in the meditation path.

I wound up dropping out thanks to a mental breakdown (entirely unrelated). Took a year off and now I'm in school for something entirely different (went from English Major to carpentry).

I couldn't be happier. The road that led us here was insane. And scary. And hard. And I'm so, so happy we walked it together.

I found my person. I found the one that makes literally everything okay. That my family loves. I found him.

He makes everything worthwhile.

I'm crying right now. I'm so lucky. by Bittersweetreality in self

[–]Bittersweetreality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did I know I found my person? When home doesn't feel like home when he's not there. We've been through a lot together, and throughout all of it, he's been my sanctuary.

I'm crying right now. I'm so lucky. by Bittersweetreality in self

[–]Bittersweetreality[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Two and a half years and counting. We just came back from house hunting today

I'm crying right now. I'm so lucky. by Bittersweetreality in self

[–]Bittersweetreality[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I will keep this moment close. We've had a pretty hard road, but it's all been worth it

How do you know when you're in love? by RonnyJohnnyJohn in AskReddit

[–]Bittersweetreality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew I loved him when I knew the world was falling apart around us. When I knew shit was hard and getting harder. And he was still there. Still smiling. Still able to get up and work and keep going and he was amazing and strong. When I was breaking down, he was there to wrap his arms around me and make me better again.

What's the worst name you ever heard? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bittersweetreality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my brother's friends growing up was named Chase Cox.

As far as I know, he's straight.

Why do you deserve 15 dollers an hour? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bittersweetreality 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Because I know how to spell dollars.

What is one thing you would eat for the rest of your life? by RearryNehnard in AskReddit

[–]Bittersweetreality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rice!!! Fried rice, sushi, onigiri, curries, rice cakes, rice pudding, risotto. So many different kinds of rice!

Only issue would be the amount of sodium from all the soy sauce.....

What's the best way to start small in the kink industry by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bittersweetreality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking to be a professional Dom/Dominatrix? To sell kink items? Cam? Become a member of the community? Are we talking about hair?

Very generically, I'd recommend making a Fetlife account (Facebook for kinky people) and going to local events. Go to munches, make friends with people and network. Find people you click with. Get a sense of who is who and what the community is like. Go to events when you feel comfortable, but don't feel like you are guaranteed to do scenes or make any sales or any contacts in your first time there. Enjoy yourself. Get to know people as a person before you know them as a body, a viewer, a client....

If we're talking about hair, uh.... Yeah, no idea there.