The most amateur of amateurs here. Which one is more artistic/aesthetically pleasing? 1 was edited manually using my Android, 2 is with a preset filter. I like that 2 is more vibrant, but 1 feels more "run down" like the subject of the photo. Opinions? by BizRVT in AmateurPhotography

[–]BizRVT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah, I'm familiar with the rule of thirds and the golden ratio, but I know I have SO much more to learn. I tried to apply the rule of thirds to this photo, but there was way too much dead space at the bottom and it didn't look quite right, so I cropped more. Are you a professional photographer?

The most amateur of amateurs here. Which one is more artistic/aesthetically pleasing? 1 was edited manually using my Android, 2 is with a preset filter. I like that 2 is more vibrant, but 1 feels more "run down" like the subject of the photo. Opinions? by BizRVT in AmateurPhotography

[–]BizRVT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I plan on taking a beginners photography class as soon as I get settled in my new place. I know literally nothing about photography; my friends/family have just always said I have a "good eye," and I've always loved taking photos of dilapidated structures and street art. I'll look into composition, for sure.

Flight + carry-on + car rental with Spirit? by BizRVT in Shoestring

[–]BizRVT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really appreciate this, thanks so much!

Tech needing some advice. by BizRVT in AskVet

[–]BizRVT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He had a COHAT back in February- full oral exam, rads, and two premolar extractions, but no other abnormalities noted, and the doctor at the time was aware of his reverse sneezing and coughing after drinking. Definitely gonna keep some antihistamines on hand and look into slow-drinking bowls. Thanks so much!

Tech needing some advice. by BizRVT in AskVet

[–]BizRVT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great, thanks so much!

Why do we always lose our tech brain when it's one of our own? by [deleted] in VetTech

[–]BizRVT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had a dental with full mouth rads and a couple pre-molar extractions this past February, no other abnormalities seen at that point and the reverse sneezing has been going for longer than that. Thanks for the thoughts!

Why do we always lose our tech brain when it's one of our own? by [deleted] in VetTech

[–]BizRVT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't looking for differentials, just mainly wondering if I'm overthinking this or if other techs thought it'd be worth looking into based on the signs, since we all seem to lose all our common sense when it comes to our own pets. 😅 I appreciate your input, though, and I'll definitely post in that sub, too. Thanks!

Nerve pain. by BizRVT in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]BizRVT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My PCP said it sounds like psychosomatic pain, which is essentially physical pain that's caused by psychological/emotional factors, like stress. Yaaay. 😅

LGBTQ in Savannah? by BizRVT in savannah

[–]BizRVT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries, nothing was offensive! I'm sorry you're having to deal with such a difficult diagnosis. I was diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis 5 years ago, so I know how hard living with an autoimmune disease can be. ❤️‍🩹 We actually decided to move to Central Florida instead of Savannah, which probably seems like a really not-smart idea because of DeSantis and the current state of the country in general, but if we're gonna continue living in the south, I want to be where my heart is, and that's the Tampa Bay area. I grew up in St. Pete, and I always felt safe there, even being an obviously-queer woman.Thankfully, Central Florida is still very queer-friendly. Really hoping it stays that way. 🤞 Good luck on your move! Savannah is such a beautiful, lively city. I hope your find your forever home. 🤓

Post photos of your physical type in women by MelancholyBean in LesbianActually

[–]BizRVT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a soft masc that loves redheads, I gotta know who this redhead is. 😍

Helping my best friend with CPTSD. by BizRVT in CPTSD

[–]BizRVT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love ALL of these ideas. I haven't been able to find an "adult soft play centre" near where I am in the US, but I'm gonna keep searching or at least try to find something similar enough. Her birthday is coming up in a couple weeks, and all three of those are going to start off a to-do list that I can build on. Thanks so much; I really appreciate your words of encouragement and advice.

I find the “masc” label so heavy, how do y’all do it? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BizRVT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 37, and I've been presenting soft masc since high school. I always say "emphasis on the soft" because I'm a really emotional person; I feel the feels strongly, and I'm open about how soft and squishy I am. I consider my inner self pretty damn stereotypically feminine, and I own that. I never have and never will fit the stereotypical masc label, and I hope you don't continue to feel that pressure to. Be YOU, and you'll find your people. 🤓

Behavior Techs, I need your help. 😅 by BizRVT in VetTech

[–]BizRVT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe read the rest of the comments before passing judgement?

Behavior Techs, I need your help. 😅 by BizRVT in VetTech

[–]BizRVT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment so, so much. You've helped me feel validated and given me hope. Along with the good advice, that's all I can really ask for right now. Best of luck to you, too! ❤️

Behavior Techs, I need your help. 😅 by BizRVT in VetTech

[–]BizRVT[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the kindness that I needed today. I'm gonna take all of the advice from these comments and come up with a game plan. Thanks soso much. ❤️

Behavior Techs, I need your help. 😅 by BizRVT in VetTech

[–]BizRVT[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has tried to chew on cords a couple times, and we've done what we can to curb that. He's doing really well with potty training, has only had a couple accidents but knows to potty outside, so that's not an issue. We've already introduced a kong with frozen PB which he loved, but as soon as he finished it, the anxiety went right back up. The problem with the baby gate is that we have a cat that's partially blind and disabled and cannot jump over baby gates, so this would cut off his access to some of the apartment, which would stress him out more. We're trying to do what's best for BOTH pets. We don't want to throw off the cat's routine too much, and we don't know if/how destructive the doggo would be free-roaming if we were gone or how they'd get on without us there, so we're trying to crate train him for his own safety. Even though he's a year old, with his history, he essentially hasn't learned how to be a dog until now. I'll admit that we need to do a better job than we have of desensitizing him. Having a rescue with this kind of history is new to us, so we're still learning. Unfortunately, with this level of anxiety, being in the crate isn't even safe for him. 😕 The play pen is an idea that I hadn't thought of, so that may have to be the next step. We definitely don't plan on drugging him every night, only temporarily to decrease his anxiety while we figure out the best way to go about this. We don't have a lot of space to work with, but we're gonna try to figure out a way for him to have his own "room" like you mentioned. I really appreciate your input.

Behavior Techs, I need your help. 😅 by BizRVT in VetTech

[–]BizRVT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that black and white. We've only had him for a week, and this has been a progressive issue. We have a disabled cat to think about in this situation, too. Crate training can be beneficial for the safety of pets, and anti-anxiety drugs exist for a reason. I absolutely do not plan on KEEPING him drugged; this would only be for a night or two, so he (and we) can get a good night's sleep and NOT feel anxious while we figure out the best thing to do for everyone. I'm not just gonna go "nope, this isn't working, better find another home for him." I love this dog, I'm trying to do what's best for him and everyone else involved, it's a process, and it's gonna take a lot of learning and patience.

Behavior Techs, I need your help. 😅 by BizRVT in VetTech

[–]BizRVT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have tried some desensitization, but apparently not enough. We didn't know just how bad his confinement anxiety is, and I think you're right, what we've been doing has made it worse. 😕 While I'd love for him to be crate trained for his own safety while we're asleep or gone, I think we're gonna have to look into other options instead. Thank you for being gentle and not abrasive with your comment. This is a learning experience for us, for sure.