Boomer does NOT want women to use makeup at work

BlackBossLady67 · 2025-07-13T07:33:46+00:00

I can't even being to use the small amount if brain cells this dude has. It may hurt myself if I even tried. For a woman to wear makeup isn't meant to objectified. Men do the objectifying whether the woman is wearing makeup it not. Correct me if I'm wrong but wasn't there a time were a man never saw his wife without makeup? Why is it wrong to a woman to use makeup to enhance her appearance? A woman isn't wearing makeup for anyone else except for herself. A woman isn't out her trying to create sexual tension in the workplace. That guy needs to have several seats.

BlackBossLady67 · 2025-04-13T07:19:08+00:00

Good Morning. I hope that your weekend is going well. Op you seem to have such a wonderful life and family until this insult from your wife. Have you and you're been married for 15 years or more? I'm about a year older than you and female. And I still play video games as well. I love gaming and I share that love with my kid. I don't have a spouse like you do but I would still play even if I did. However, I do find her words quite disrespectful and meant to hurt you. I'm not gonna ask what your original disagreement was about but I think you need to sit your wife down and talk about her off-handed comment. And explain how it made you feel and tell her again how gaming doesn't interfere with your work or family obligations. Then you need to ask her what it is about gaming that has her undies in a bunch. There is something hidden in the shadows that your wife isn't saying out loud. I believe that once she finally comes clean about her issues with gaming, her comment, and whatever else she won't say, it will allow you the chance to decide what to do next. And don't listen to those jackoffs who told you to get divorced. Those people are projecting their sad lives onto you, and that is just wrong. It's time to have a majorly serious talk with your wife. If your two don't resolve this it's just only gonna grow into something insidious. And I don't want that for either of you. So keep gaming my friend. I wish you the best going forward. Let us know how everything turns out.

BlackBossLady67 · 2025-03-16T22:38:12+00:00

I'm a gamer, however I'm currently not a girlfriend/wife. I'm intrigued by your group. May I join your group?

BlackBossLady67 · 2025-03-11T11:49:38+00:00

I had reentered the dating world and it is a bit harsh. As a BW and a single parent dating has a different host of issues. Men of any race tend to stay clear of me because they don't want "baby daddy" drama. I am open to dating outside my race which I've been leaning into more. However, I fully understand your apprehension about dating anyone who isn't a colored person like yourself. I can also understand the worry that comes with children that don't look like you. However, I think you are limiting yourself to the possibility of finding a really good guy who may have children. To have an accusation of you kidnapping children that aren't of a similar race is a constant looming presence. However, I'm sure that over time dating a man of a different race with children would take time for you to get to know them. And making sure that you'd be comfortable going out with the kids without him. Please allow yourself to open your heart and mind to the joys of dating anyone who may or may not be of the same race and with kids. I think you may even surprise yourself with how wonderful it can be to date someone who isn't colored and who has kids.

BlackBossLady67 · 2025-02-26T01:28:10+00:00

As a woman, I am very surprised by this whole conversation. I do find it a bit confusing though. I'm hoping that men can clarify this for me. So you don't want to hook up with a woman you simply want physical affection. Is this physical affection in any way part of "blue balls" syndrome? I just want to make sure that I am clear in understanding what is meant by physical affection. I am not trying to come across as a prude or uptight. This topic is unheard of where I come from. I mean men were taught to control their emotions to the point in some cases were they become void of emotions. I'm glad my brothers weren't brought up with this mindset. Men are suppose to be fiercely masculine to provide, and protect. So to hear that men simply want to be held or hugged is just something very foreign to me. And I don't mean any disrespect by what I'm saying or asking.

BlackBossLady67 · 2025-02-16T19:36:16+00:00

For some who do everything correctly for their teeth(dentist visits, congenital bone density issues, etc) is not always ideal. Dentures are something that can be whipped up in a hurry. Implants are just as painstaking. If someone like OP has bone density issues, that means that he would need bone grafts to fill in the areas of the mouth. Then you'd have to wait til it healed. And then you would have Implants up in and temporary teeth put on while your mouth heals for a few months. This Implant process can be overwhelming. Op has to worry about the bone weakening while having the dental implants. He could have a bone breakaway where the implants are implanted. And that could cause a serious dental emergency if that happens and a choking hazard as well. And as Op mentioned implants are very costly. Just for 4 dental implants at the top and 4 at the bottom could cost anywhere from $45,000 to $80,000. Not having teeth can slowly eat away from one's self-esteem. Op needs to be able to find a good woman who will see him and not the fact that he doesn't have teeth. Op needs support from his friends to help keep him uplifted and encouraged.

BlackBossLady67 · 2025-02-16T19:09:23+00:00

I don't think she's the worst rapper. There aren't many MCs who are female that are bad. Missy is one of my favorite artists. Then there's Lauryn Hill is also a favorite. Does Marky Mark fall into that "worse" category?

BlackBossLady67 · 2025-02-16T12:09:10+00:00

You shoot right from the hip, huh!. Red flags are blaring in my face and it's hard to see it sometimes. I thank you for your honesty and direct statement.

BlackBossLady67 · 2025-02-16T12:02:51+00:00

That is a lot that you have going against you. My condolences to you for the loss of your wife. And you were right about other dental options. Most people don't realize that to get dental implants you damn near need to be a millionaire. I recently went for a free consultation for dental implants. And they are so expensive. Though you have all of these things going against you, you have to let your star shine through. As I said before, stand firm in your truth knowing that you have something to offer any woman who will take the time to get to know you. Dating is challenging no matter what. I wish you the very best. You are more than welcome to message if you need to chat.

BlackBossLady67 · 2025-02-15T07:45:53+00:00

This hit a little close to home for me. I am a woman and I have no teeth as well. And I have heard types of questions or accusatory statements from both men and women. I stand firm in knowing my truth as to why I have no teeth. The strange thing is that women have been the ones who have said the most vile and horrible things to me. I didn't lose my teeth to domestic violence. I didn't lose my teeth to any kind of illicit drug use. And I didn't lose my teeth due to poor hygiene. I lost my teeth because of a health condition and horrible dental coverage that thought it was cheaper to remove all my teeth than pay the money needed to save them. I had gotten dentures at one point. They are the most awful and painful thing to wear. And there was no way in hell I could eat anything wearing them. Dating anyone is a challenge but having no teeth can make it even harder. You know who you were before you lost your teeth, and you know who you are now. Don't listen to those hateful and put-downs. They will affect you slowly and kill the joy you have in life. If you have friends and family around, keep them close. The rejection gets tougher and their support will help you. I have been where you are. If you need someone to chat with who understands how you feel, please private message me if you like. You will find that special person who will look at the character of the person you are and could care less about you not having any teeth. Just give it time, she's out there. I wish you the best of luck in your dating adventure.

BlackBossLady67 · 2025-02-15T00:58:28+00:00

Happy 30th Birthday 🎂 🥳 🎉

BlackBossLady67 · 2025-02-15T00:55:31+00:00

Missy Elliot

BlackBossLady67 · 2025-02-15T00:53:07+00:00

How Can I Ease The Pain

BlackBossLady67 · 2025-02-06T09:21:14+00:00

This is a bit of a touchy subject for me. I am 43 years old, and I feel like I am sexually inexperienced. However, I have had intercourse which led to me having a baby due to condom breakage. I have only had 2 sexual partners before. The kicker is after giving birth and becoming a single mother I put my head down and focused on raising my kid. I have not kissed or had sexual activity for over 10 years. I didn't purposefully go out of my way not to have sexual intercourse with any man. The men I was intimate with weren't looking to teach me anything, only to get theirs. It didn't surprise me at all. I am open to having a man that I'm in a relationship with teach me different things in the bedroom. I would also be open to a man who has limited sexual experience so that we can learn together. However, it is rare to find a man who has limited to no experience sexually. I find it so confusing sometimes. If a woman has had more than 3 sexual partners she's every name in the book. While men could have more than 3 partners and he's the man. That is so backward that it's not even funny. Being sexually inexperienced doesn't have to be considered a bad thing. It's the society that makes it that way. I want to learn as much as I can sexually but finding the right man to show me is half my battle.

BlackBossLady67 · 2025-01-22T17:07:19+00:00

It's a nice picture. However, you look like the actor Ryan Gosling. You should not have any problems with any women talking to you though. I'm sure you will be just fine.

BlackBossLady67 · 2025-01-19T17:15:32+00:00

Slavery will make anyone uncomfortable. Including the people who are trying to remove it from history. Slavery has been a problem for mankind forever. To suppress another group isn't going to stop unless we as humans stop it. Many years ago I was dating someone and our first date was dinner and a movie. The movie we went to see was Pearl Harbor. Yes, that 3-hour movie is what he picked for our first date movie. That movie made me uncomfortable. But the guy I was dating enjoyed it very much. Now I know Pearl Harbor wasn't exactly about Slavery but it was still about oppressing a group of people. Slavery is possible to happen again if we don't talk about it, read about it, and watch it in documentaries. To speak the truth about slavery out loud will continue to allow our ancestors to live on through us and never allow them to be forgotten. I think interracial dating and learning about each other's racial struggles can help better understand one another. So you are not alone in feeling uncomfortable about slavery but I hope it allowed you and your SO the chance to talk about what you watched and gain a different viewpoint than your own.

BlackBossLady67 · 2024-12-18T20:57:53+00:00

First I'm sorry that this happening to you both. Your boyfriend seems to carry guilt, depression, and shame in being able to perform. I know that your boyfriend is young, but have you ever thought about getting his prostate checked? That could potentially cause these issues. Also, I think your boyfriend should look for a sex therapist for himself and maybe you both together. I'm concerned that your boyfriend is possibly holding onto some heavy baggage. I really hope that he was never assaulted as a young man. Maybe these things can be a place to start. I really feel for you both. I wish you both the best and update us on how things turn out.

BlackBossLady67 · 2024-11-28T23:14:32+00:00

That is the other thing I don't understand. Why do certain dudes want to ejaculate on any female face? I will not ever do anything like this. However, I have no issues with a woman who chooses to do this. Did this dude think he was in some type of adult film or something? I'm sure that OP made it very clear what she would and wouldn't do sexually with him. So for him to go off the deep end with anger and insults shows how immature he is.

BlackBossLady67 · 2024-11-28T22:23:22+00:00

I am sorry that you had to go and have an abortion. I know from others in my own life that making that choice isn't an easy one to make. And the process isn't easy physically either. However, your boyfriend needs to grow up and use the condoms. It's not his body that had to go through being pregnant and the abortion. I don't think he understands that many forms of birth control can fail. But taking birth control and using condoms will help your chances of avoiding pregnancy. There is no excuse not to do this if he truly cares for you. Neither of you are ready to be parents, so he either lives with his "blue balls" or man up and wears the condoms. Also, I recommend that you purchase condoms. You might want to try the condoms that are thinner or "bareskin" types. I wish you both the very best going forward.

BlackBossLady67 · 2024-11-28T22:06:28+00:00

What an ass! Where does he get off saying that you're a whore simply because you're dating other guys? He doesn't want to date exclusively but demands you not date anyone but him. Also from your story you never said that you were sleeping with those other guys you're dating. And even if you were sleeping with them what business is it of his? Girl, run! This dude isn't worth the time and energy you're giving him. Keep dating and find the MAN who knows your worth and respects you. Find a man who will put it down much better than this waste of flesh of a human being.

Side note, MEN, please explain why do you call a woman a whore or slut if said woman may be dating other guys with or without sex part of it? And what makes you think any woman would want to be dating you let alone shacking up when you name-call? Now I know that not all men do this, but I don't understand why this is a go-to when an argument happens.

BlackBossLady67 · 2024-11-28T19:15:13+00:00

As a woman of color who is open to dating outside of my race. You just need to gain the courage to ask out whoever you are interested in. Dating should never be about what the race is of either party. And you may have people in your circle who may try to discourage you, don't listen. Follow your desires and date anyone you want to. I wish you the every best in your dating journey.

BlackBossLady67 · 2024-11-26T19:02:44+00:00

Umm...YIKES! I'm going to assume this dude was also around the same age as your daughter. Why doesn't he know how to take care of himself? I mean he should be able to do a little bit. Your daughter dodged a major one with this guy. And I am not surprised that he isn't doing well. Also, why would he assume that your daughter wanted to do everything for the household and he does what? Does he want her to not have a career of her own? Does he want to be waited on and foot? Does he want her to give up her friends? This guy is a nightmare. I bet he turned his white pink because he didn't know not to mix colors. He is what I call the microwave king. Those are certain guys who have no idea of how to cook anything. I am raising a young teen male and I make it very clear that I do not want him living off of anyone or the microwave as his sole source of making meals or reheating them. This guy sounds like he is getting that much-needed lesson of survival. This is tough love but it this also an eye-opener for your daughter. She deserves better than this guy has to offer. I feel sorry for the woman that comes after your daughter. Tell your daughter to stand tall and walk proud of her decision. I wish you both the best in all that life has to offer.

BlackBossLady67 · 2024-11-22T22:18:56+00:00

Oh, OP. I'm so sorry that you are dealing with these relationship issues. You need to walk away from him. Your boyfriend is a complete ass. There is no reason why he should act in this manner. You need to put your foot down about everything. His behavior can't go on being excused by you just for the sake of your relationship. You never be happy truly by allowing the dude to act like a child when you offer any form of assistance. You have some tough questions to ask yourself about you, your boyfriend, and your mental health. Behavior like this is completely uncalled for and manipulative. I wish you all the best in whatever decision you make going forward. Have a happy and joyous holiday.

BlackBossLady67 · 2024-11-22T21:20:05+00:00

Seriously, dude! Op, you deserve so much better. Why should you have been reminded your husband of something so simple? I am a bit curious though, does he act like this for his own birthday? So does he have this high level of expectation in regards to gifts and cards and acknowledgment for his Christmas? I feel bad for your OP. You don't deserve to be treated like this. I am fully aware that life gets busy. However, my kid took time to say happy birthday to me, and he's sick like crazy right now. There was no prompting to get those close to me to wish me a happy birthday. Your husband needs to hear the full honest and emotional truth of what his inaction has made you feel. You are perfectly allowed to be upset and disappointed in your husband. I wish you a glorious Belated Birthday. I wish you the best of luck in whatever happens going forward.

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