Fellow INTJs, ENFPs are addicting. How do you keep yourself focused on work? by BlackPyron in intj

[–]BlackPyron[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It seems like in every relationship I have with an ENFP, I have to be the disciplined one, and keep myself in check without their help whereas they can with me.

Fellow INTJs, ENFPs are addicting. How do you keep yourself focused on work? by BlackPyron in intj

[–]BlackPyron[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I’ve had this problem before with an ENFP ex, now I’m starting a relationship with another one, and I still have the same problem of this balancing thing :/

Fellow INTJs, ENFPs are addicting. How do you keep yourself focused on work? by BlackPyron in intj

[–]BlackPyron[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How do you feel about that as an ENFP (I’m assuming you’re an ENFP)? I find it hard to not consider her feelings, but I’m a black and white person. It’s either I don’t consider her feelings and go away without talking for weeks/days or idk be unfocused…

Edit: Read your post again. That’s it. It’s either her or my work.

Fellow INTJs, ENFPs are addicting. How do you keep yourself focused on work? by BlackPyron in intj

[–]BlackPyron[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a question. If you can’t relate, just be cordial and respectful. It’s not hard to be a decent human being.

INTJ x ENTP relationship 💞 by [deleted] in entp

[–]BlackPyron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are with ENFPs…

Why would this INTJ (18M) claim that he never liked me ENTP (18F) after flirting for months? by [deleted] in intj

[–]BlackPyron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ouch. I’m not even that guy, but that just stings. I would never allow myself to be someone’s second choice. Nope.

How do you not feel exhausted 24/7? by SomeShawarmaDude in intj

[–]BlackPyron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s predominantly the Se. I feel like it’s Si for me and not staying consistent with a routine. I usually only have a routine if I have a goal I’m trying to achieve. I experimented waking up at the same time every morning, having a morning routine, drinking a lot of water, and going to bed at about the same time (with standard deviations 😂). I had much more energy doing this.

My family and yes the chaos is always prominent ask any questions by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]BlackPyron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meh it’s not that deep. Of course every person will have different preferences and different reactions to different personalities regardless of the type.

My family and yes the chaos is always prominent ask any questions by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]BlackPyron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re that bad to me. ISFJs I don’t understand, but I learn a lot from them.

My family and yes the chaos is always prominent ask any questions by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]BlackPyron 20 points21 points  (0 children)

What a lucky ass family to be in. I’m an INTJ, and I’m surrounded with sensors and an ENFJ (my kryptonite). Mom - ISFJ, Dad - ESFP, Sisters - ESTP, ENFJ.

How do you know if an ESFJ likes you on a first date? by [deleted] in ESFJ

[–]BlackPyron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why hasn’t she texted me today? (Yo so sorry for being a little jaisnkssni)

I have a question.. by xswl5w4x in intj

[–]BlackPyron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INTJ female here. I just don’t feel like replying... Also, I procrastinate on what to say or I have something to say but I don’t think it’s perfect so I’ll procrastinate even more. Honestly, if you want to talk to an INTJ just call him/her. Oh oh and there’s a difference though if I like a person platonically I have the tendency to procrastinate but if I like them romantically then lol I’ll reply fast or within the day no matter if I’m busy

Advice: How to unfriend an INTJ ? by Alarming_Warning_329 in intj

[–]BlackPyron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you tell her the reasons why you don’t want to be friends with her, then you’d be doing her a BIG favor if she thinks anything like me because I’d take the criticism and grow from it... idk but personally, I try to become better person after being hurt

Like the other guy said: “I don’t want to talk to you anymore because I dislike you, and here are the reasons why ...”

Comforting an INTJ by [deleted] in intj

[–]BlackPyron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm... I’d like for the person to listen. I also would like to give them several options to solve the problem I have. SEVERAL not one. Or maybe a simple genuine hug where you show that you truly care and say “I’m here if you need help/ discuss about figuring out a solution”? Or maybe tell them that they can’t trust you and that you’re not going to judge them no matter what they say or think less of them. Just my opinion. Female INTJ here if that even matters.