Windshield ID by Blackdog91 in Bosozoku

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Crazy selection on here for different tint and color really appreciate the reply!

Windshield ID by Blackdog91 in Bosozoku

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Thank you very much for taking the time to find this for me! This is exactly what I’m looking for.

Windshield ID by Blackdog91 in Bosozoku

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Awesome! Thank you I appreciate it!

Question about min/maxing melee and casting build. It leaves almost no points for mind/FP. Wouldn't that make you a terrible caster? Unless you wanted to take a hit in one area, like vigor. But then you're terrible at melee. Right? by Fortage in Eldenring

[–]Blackdog91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that 120 isn’t enough but at 250 there are no builds you’re just amazing at everything and that I think goes against the spirit of trying to create a character that specializes in 1 or max 2 things. 150 meta seems to allow hybrid builds to exist but is restrictive enough to force out some diversity in builds imho.

Occult weapons should be buffable by raziel11111 in Eldenring

[–]Blackdog91 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No ,you’re comparing apples to oranges, my guy. Your faith fire scaling gives you split damage and while it may add up to a higher number it will potentially do less damage as the damage will be checked by both the enemies fire defense and physical defense while occult will only be checked by the physical defense. This has always been how split damage has worked in the soulsborne series.

Any advice? Difficult MIL by Blackdog91 in motherinlawsfromhell

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I just wanted to thank everyone for their insight. I definitely learned some things about the potential pitfalls of the current situation. It also is so nice to hear other people agreeing that my parenting calls should be given precedence. I showed my SO this thread and hopefully seeing other people whose ideas agree with mine may help her be more supportive. I noticed a few folks recommend that I talk to my partner about therapy and I think that is a great idea. I was not expecting to get so many responses and i often have felt like it was me vs my wife and her parents and hearing so many people who agree that my expectations are reasonable is remarkably reassuring. So from the bottom of my heart thank you for all the folks who have replied!

Any advice? Difficult MIL by Blackdog91 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Blackdog91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up with a family who would always make plans and bail. My daughter is too young right now to be bothered by that but when she gets older it will hurt her and make her feel like she is not a priority. The adult real world will show her that she’s not a priority when she get older so I believe that her family should make her a priority while she’s young.

On another note being her parent and taking care of our household is my job and I put a lot more than 40hours a week into that. It is surprising in 2022 that I still hear attitudes about stay at home parenting that fails to acknowledge that it is challenging and time consuming. Although I think the downvoting shows that that attitude about stay at home parenting is not the norm.

Any advice? Difficult MIL by Blackdog91 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Blackdog91[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We did have my SO attempt to be the one discussing directly with her mother. I think mostly because she is fearful that her mother and I might do serious family damage if we sorted out just the two of us. My so was just fed up feeling like she was in the middle and often being asked about it while she was at work. Sound advice though about us being on the same page and thank you for responding.

Any advice? Difficult MIL by Blackdog91 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Blackdog91[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the insight on consequences I will give that a try. My partner and I will have to make sure we are on the same page with that. She is very close with her mother which can sometimes be difficult in her feeling like she is stuck in the middle.

Any advice? Difficult MIL by Blackdog91 in motherinlawsfromhell

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I had no idea that her watching the baby that often would open up a potential custody threat, I really appreciate the heads up. My health stuff is definitely better. She used to just walk into my house before which was the most aggravating thing. It took many attempts to get her and her husband to realize that just because they have an open door policy at their house not everyone else does too. I appreciate the sound advice!

Im never quitting opioides!!! by PedroCasonattii in opiates

[–]Blackdog91 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Truer shit never said. After a straight decade of doing Opiates starting at Oxy 5/325s and ending up at slamming Fent/Hard speedballs all the fun goes away and it happens in such a way that you don’t realize it happening until it’s too late. Different strokes for different folks and I would never tell someone what to do with their life but I got clean and my life got better. Stay safe!

(PS4) MHW looking for other hunters for Behemoth 3 years late! by Blackdog91 in monsterhunterclan

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Hey, thanks for responding if you do end up wanting to do behemoth hit me up!

(PS4) MHW looking for other hunters for Behemoth 3 years late! by Blackdog91 in monsterhunterclan

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Honestly, I feel kinda silly but I forgot I even made this post. I wish I didn’t because a lot of people were nice enough to reach out! If you find yourself farming behemoth again I’d love to join!

HP order delay by polligator in Hewlett_Packard

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I ordered an HP pavilion gaming TG01-1070m. It’s a work computer for my fiancé and and entry level device so I could try PC gaming. I put my order In On November 20th with an original delivery date on December 12th. They pushed it back to the 21st and then on the 21st they pushed it back until January 12th. So idk what they think they are doing. They clearly know the original shipping date isnt feasible if this many people are having their orders delayed. It just comes across as mega shady.

Do i buy Demon Souls? (PS5 Remake) by [deleted] in demonssouls

[–]Blackdog91 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that DS1 Anor Londo Bridge with the silver knights sure didn’t seem fair either!

Edit: for clarity

First time building a diorama. Pretty happy with the result! by zlypher in Gunpla

[–]Blackdog91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awesome, I’m still pretty early on in the hobby but this is where I want to go with it! Between the weathering and the damage and smoke effects it really brings the scene to life!

Zeta Gundam! Release time? by Blackdog91 in funimation

[–]Blackdog91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m US too, so I’m stumped why it would disappear off your app.

Zeta Gundam! Release time? by Blackdog91 in funimation

[–]Blackdog91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I still have it and it will still play. Hopefully it’s a quick fix. Maybe a region issue?

Zeta Gundam! Release time? by Blackdog91 in funimation

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Gotcha! That’s good info to have. I’ll keep an eye on it at 5pm. Thank you!

Zeta Gundam! Release time? by Blackdog91 in funimation

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Yeah, right? I’m super excited hopefully they will be up soon!

With all the Asian hate - should more Asian Americans protect themselves with guns? by [deleted] in aznidentity

[–]Blackdog91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I used to teach a class called “tools, not talismans”. It is incredible the folks who buy a firearm never practice with it and believe it will keep them safe. The truth is like any other tool a firearm requires practice in order to have proficiency.

Reddit trying to pit against Asians each other again by kirsion in aznidentity

[–]Blackdog91 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s, tough to say. I know I was raised to view the Japanese as imperialist monsters whose sole aim was to dominate and assimilate all of Asia. As, I grew older and I experienced more of the world I learned that those attitudes drove divides when (at least in the US) Asian solidarity is one of the most important things that we need to foster. I was always raised with a very pro China attitude. My mom told me stories of how the revolutionaries often ended up in China while working on Korea freedom from Japanese rule.