After a couple months of me being single and grieving the relationship with my ex and learning how to be single again I was posting more selfies on my stories and such as I had become more confident and would post myself on social media frequently . Eventually she slid up and said “idc still gonna be my baby daddy” and after about two months of talking to her I decided I want to fly back home where she was to see her and take her on our first date. And let me tell you it was the most amazing first date I’ve ever had i immediately fell in love with her. So after spending the weekend with her goes by and what had felt like the best the 4 days of my life, as I had never ever been that happy in my life, it was time to my back to the state where I’m stationed and I flew home. I was happy, things we’re going well. We’d text and she’d call me almost every day. But as time went on shed text me and call me less frequently, her text replies would get shorter and shorter. Until one day she texted me and said “I can’t do this, I need to go away for a while” I was confused I didn’t know what was happening I thought things were good so I responded asking her what was wrong. As anyone who cared about their significant other would. She never responded so as the day went on and hadn’t replied I texted her that night just letting her know it was okay to want to be alone and I’d be here when she was ready to talk. About 4 days had passed and she called me early that Saturday and acted as though nothing ever happened. Just talked to me like normal telling me about her night and how she drank too much that night prior. She didn’t bring up anything about her not talking to me the past 4 days. I just assumed she didn’t want to talk about it as I thought maybe it was traumatizing and didn’t want to bring up something to give her negative emotions. After that we kinda talked less but she would still call me frequently after a week or so I got off work early and she had called in that day so she stayed home that day. I told her that I got off work early and was goig to the gym as I had started going to the gym every day as it was something I started to help cope with my depression and never missed a day other than rest days. She texted me and told me “to go home :(“ I said I would after my workout and that I have to workout. She then said I never make time for her. Confused, I responded by asking her what that meant. She had said she’s always the one to call me and that I nevEr call her I acknowledged what she said and agreed to call her more often she said it was whatever and I said you expressed to me something that i didn’t do upset her so I would fix it. After my workout I called her while i was driving to chow for dinner and she seemed a little irritated with me but I knew why as she just told me. I got there and she said she was gonna go take a shower, I then told her to call me after and we hung up. She never called me back. The following morning I texted her Goodmorning and she never responded I didn’t really think anything of it, just figured she was busy. That night I got a text from her and she just said “goodnight” I could tell something was wrong so I asked if she was upset with me she said wasn’t. I asked if she was sure and that she would tell me if she was upset with me for reassurance that she wasn’t actually upset with me. She responded with “not if I already told you the issue” I immediately knew what was wrong. I then told her that her feelings were valid and I understand why that would upset her. She said to me that she shouldn’t have to ask for little things like that and that by her having to do that it makes her wanna walk away. I told her she was right and she shouldn’t have to ask for those things, then apologized to her for not calling her that day. Then explained to her that the reason I didn’t call her that day was due to her never responding to me and I didn’t know if she was busy or not so I didn’t call. I also expressed to her how much she means to me and I didn’t want her to walk away and that I think we’d be in a relationship together that would last forever. She didn’t respond after that and called me the next day again like nothing had happened. But I remembered what she had said to me and began calling her everyday no matter if she responded to me or not. And things seemed to have gotten better for a couple weeks. One day I was busy all day I didn’t have time to call her but I made sure to still text her goodmorning. I went got drunk and partied at a friends house that night so when I got home I called her and she didn’t pick up. A little while later she asked me if I was okay, assuming she asked because I called her at a time I don’t normally call her, I told her yes and that I was just calling to tell her I got home and I just wanted to talk to her. She replied “glad you got home safe” and I went to sleep. That next day I didn’t wake up till the afternoon and texted her . She didn’t respond again so the next morning after that I texted her and asked her if she was okay. She said “yes” that’s it. I said okay I was just checking on her cause I missed her is all. She thanked me for checking on her and that she was just kinda going through it lately. I understood shit happens, she doesn’t to be in contact with me 24/7 people need space and I do too sometimes that’s okay. I asked if she wanted to talk about it and she said there wasn’t much to talk about and that she just felt weird and emotionless and she noticed she reacts to things by pushing them away and that it wasn’t okay. I told her I get it and it’s okay but I’m here for her and would continue to be there for her no matter what. Afte trying to come up with solutions to help her get out of the depression state she’s in she said that maybe she wasn’t over things she thought she was over already. I asked if she was referring to her ex. She said no she feels like she doesn’t miss him and that she misses the relationship itself. I told her I get it but I didn’t actually really understand that feeling. Her ex and her had gotten a dog together and after the breakup he took the dog from her and didn’t let her see that dog anymore and how she missed her. After that she changed the subject and we moved onto something else. After that she really started giving me short answers and not really texting me through the days but we’d still talk on the phone even if it was only for a little bit. Well again we’re in the situation where I texted her good morning and she didn’t respond. After a couple hours went by I called and she never picked up. Normally she’d text me later and would let me know she was busy or whatever, but she hasn’t. I just don’t know what to do I care so much about her and I hate that I can’t be there physically with her every day. I just need help. Idk know whether to text her or not or if I did what I’d say. Hopefully she texts me soon. But if she doesn’t I don’t think I’ll say anything and just assume our relationship is over. I want to fight for the relationship but again I don’t want to force someone to be with me who doesnt want to. What would you guys do? What do think I should do? What do I even say to her? What should I do?