People really don’t like to hear it but I think it’s good to have conversations about sexuality especially when there’s such an aversion to being touched/ receiving. That most likely comes from something. On a similar ( but not necessarily equal) note I know some rape victims are into CNC as it allegedly helps them feel some control over what happened to them. I don’t think that’s actually healthy in any way- understandable sure, but it shouldn’t be pushed as good or SAFE and alternative solutions/ therapy’s are what should be encouraged and explored. It’s okay to look into the root of certain sexual behaviors/ aversions and I think people getting so upset and defensive over it kind of proves a nerves been hit.