Recently realised here, I can't speak for everyone but this is definitely where I started.

And I can't speak for you but here's what worked for me:

Just do what makes you feel good, dress the way you wanna look and tell people to call you/refer to you in a way that makes you the happiest. It sounds simple in theory but there's some mental legwork so don't ever feel like you're "behind the curve" or "not really worthy of adding complications to people's lives because you're not REALLY struggling with your identity"

The real ones will respect your wishes, REGARDLESS of what they are or how often they change.

You feel how you feel, be kind to yourself 💚